If you’re looking for ways to make your special night a little spicier, then I’d seriously consider giving costumes to try in the bedroom a chance! It’s an easy and sexy way to break up your lovemaking routine, and pretending to be a hot teacher, cheerleader or nurse is definitely the way to do it! Your guy will love that you’re a risk taker, and that you’re willing to do a little role-playing to turn each other on. It’s quite fun being someone else for a change. Here are my top choices for costumes to try in the bedroom that will make your guy go crazy with lust.
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1. Nurse
A nurse costume is by far one of the sexiest costumes to try in the bedroom. Nurses are typically known for their nurturing nature. They are people who are there to help you with sickness and overall provide care for you. Men love that caring part especially. A hot nurse costume lets him know that you are going to take care of him in the bedroom. So, try this one out, and prepare for a steamy night!
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This alluring outfit often includes a form-fitting white dress with red trim, a playful nurse's cap, and sometimes a stethoscope accessory. The fantasy taps into a deep-rooted caregiver role, combined with the thrill of role reversal—where this time, you are the one administering a dose of excitement. It's not just about the visual appeal; it's about creating an intimate scenario where the typical patient-caretaker dynamic is infused with a sense of adventure and sensuality.
2. Maid
Men are always so fascinated by the fantasy of having relations with a maid. It gives them a sense of authority, which they love. It’s also a big turn on because it can seem like an adventure because you run the risk of getting “caught.” The excitement and passion that ensues after you pull this little number out and throw it on will blow his (and yours too) mind.
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The traditional French maid outfit, with its short black skirt and white lace apron, often accessorized with a feather duster or a headpiece, taps into age-old power dynamics and sociocultural taboos. It's all about indulging in role-play that's just a little naughty, stirring up images of discretion being tossed to the wind in spontaneous encounters. The taboo associated with the maid and employer relationship adds an edge of forbidden fruit to the scenario, which never fails to send the excitement levels soaring. So, whether you're dishing out dusting duties or serving up something a little more intimate, this costume is sure to tickle his fancy in more ways than one.
Frequently asked questions
Trying out different costumes like a seductive nurse, a sultry maid, or a daring police officer can spice things up. You can get creative and even mix things up with superhero or fantasy characters!
Not at all! You can find affordable options online or even put together your own with items you already have at home. The key is the effort and fun, not the price tag.
Communication is key! You can have a chat about his fantasies or surprise him and see his reaction. Either way, showing confidence and having fun will definitely make him enjoy it.
It's totally normal to feel shy at first. Start with something you're comfortable with and ease into it. Remember, it's all about having fun and trying something new with your partner.
Absolutely! Trying new things, like role-playing and dressing up, can reignite passion and bring you closer as a couple. It's a playful way to connect and enjoy each other's company.
3. Teacher/Schoolgirl
Wearing a schoolgirl costume is definitely something that will get your guy’s attention. It brings them right back to high school, when their hormones ran rampant and their attention span for women was much longer than in their 20s. And, being able to sleep with the intelligent yet sexy teacher is a fantasy that most guys will readily admit to.
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The iconic plaid skirt paired with a button-up shirt tied at the waist adds that irresistible naughty twist. Complete the look with knee-high socks and pigtail braids, and you've crafted the ultimate schoolgirl ensemble. As for portraying the teacher, slip into a form-fitting pencil skirt and glasses to channel that authoritative allure. It's all about the role-play and tapping into the taboo, where you can explore the dynamics of power and innocence. Just don't forget the rule: when in costume, commit to the character – the storytelling is half the seduction.
4. Military
Men are attracted to power, so it’s no wonder they are attracted to military girls. Military women are confident, cool, and always in control. Since men are mostly in control, this costume could definitely give you a way to tell him what exactly what you want in the bedroom if you’re typically a shy person. Try it out, it could turn out to be a really great night!
5. Cop
This is another one of those control and authority fantasies. Men love that these tough policewomen have power, and they’d love to see her let her hair down and be comfortable with them, and them only. Men would definitely love to be the ones who bring out her softer, sexy side. So, make that fantasy real, ladies, it’ll rock your worlds. (Try starting with a strip-search. Wink, wink!)
6. Cheerleader
Ah, cheerleaders. The girls on top of the popularity chain in the high school scene. Most guys are attracted to cheerleaders because of those short, short skirts, their super flexibility and their peppiness about everything. They would love to be the ones to help them (you) “stretch.” Well, you can totally make that fantasy come true. It’d be an even bigger turn-on for him if you can do a split too!
7. Decked in Leather
A woman dressed in all black leather, donning crimson red nails, is a woman who exudes sexiness. Men love that you look frisky and that again, you have power. Boy, do men like fancy power. But it’ll be in your hands, leather lady, so do with it what you will. (If you know what I mean.)
8. Superhero
Nothing is hotter than being rescued by a sexy superhero! But don't stop there, why not show your guy your super powers under the sheets, too. He'll gladly play the role of dude in distress when he's got Wonder Woman to save the day.
9. Football Player
Your guy is obsessed with football, right? So seeing you in a sexy football player's costume is sure to get his heart pumping. Show him some "necessary roughness" and let him score a touchdown. He's never going to look at football the same way again!
Whether you’re comfortable enough in your relationship to try out a costume or looking for a way to spice things up, these costumes to try in the bedroom should surely help. Your guy would be all over you in seconds. You can thank me later, ladies. Are there any costumes you would try in the bedroom?
Comments
melody: I'm for football , my crush and I are for the Broncos !
Jules: I think classic lingerie never fails - esp lace underwear & seamed stockings.....my husband likes me in it too
Adriana: My sexy sailor uniform works wonders!!!
Stefanie: You're right! When I wear my scrubs in bed things get heated!
Lystra: Those are all good ones to try with your Partner
Wynters: I think maybe men should start worrying about what WE want in the bedroom, instead of us always being the ones to worry about what THEY want.
Jasmine: Mine loves school girl
Noelle: Coming from a marine wife... They do not like women in the military. I hear about this everyday...
Nikki: Just be naked with heels or boots!
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