Hearing him say I love you should be magical, spine-tingling and reassuring. But those three little words aren’t the only bond that holds your relationship together. The statement of love should be backed up with clear signs of how he feels. You can’t live on just words or empty promises.
Snapshot Survey
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1. Speaks up
One of the key unspoken signs he loves you is that he likes to challenge things that you say and beliefs that you have. Rather than taking this as a sign that he is being disrespectful, you should recognize that him starting discussions about things that you say means that he is truly listening to every word that comes out of your mouth, not just ignoring you and going with the flow.
2. Proximity
A subtle way of letting somebody know that you love them is through the closeness of your bodies. If he stands or sits super close to you, especially in public settings, it’s a huge sign that he wants to let everybody know that you are his and that he is proud to have you!
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Physical proximity is often a tell-tale sign of someone's affection for you. When he consistently chooses to sit by your side, even when there are other options available, it reflects a non-verbal declaration of feelings. Whether it's a gentle nudge during a conversation, or his hand brushing against yours as you walk together, these small touches have a big message. They say that he's intuitively drawn to you, and these simple acts of closeness are his way of maintaining a connection that transcends words. So, pay attention to these gestures; they're silent yet powerful admissions of his heart's true position.
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3. Good Memory
You’ll know for sure that he loves you when you realize that he remembers all of the simple little things that only a true love would keep stored in their brain. It might be something you said to him on your very first date or something that happened to you on your first trip together. It shows that he cherishes those little moments!
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A partner with a knack for recalling even the most minute details of your experiences demonstrates his affection in a profound yet understated manner. Perhaps he brings up the quirky ice cream flavor you tried during a spontaneous dessert run, or he remembers the exact hue of blue you said was your favorite on a lazy Sunday afternoon. Such attentive memory reflects his deep engagement in the relationship and his emotional investment in the moments that matter to you. It's like he's got a highlight reel of your time together playing on loop in his heart.
4. Random Texts
The text messages might not spell out “I love you”, but the fact that he can’t seem to go more than two hours without sending you some type of digital message indicates that he is thinking about you all the time and cannot go any length of time without communicating with the person that he loves!
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It might just be a meme he stumbled across that reminded him of an inside joke, or perhaps a simple "how's your day going?" inquiry. These are small gestures, sure, but they hold a tender significance; they're his way of subtly intertwining his daily life with yours. Even the most mundane updates or shared links are whispers of affection, proof that you occupy his thoughts frequently, and each notification is a nudge, a gentle reminder that he cares deeply, even when he's not saying it out loud.
5. Pet Approval
Some people say that the way to a girl’s heart is through her pets, so if he spends a lot of time trying to win over your animals and get them on his side, you can be pretty sure that it means he has visions of all of you living together some day!
6. Sharing Hobbies
If he likes to include you in his hobbies, that’s a really good sign. Some guys are really sensitive about keeping their private things like going to football or watching their favorite shows just for them, but if he wants to share than it means he thinks so highly of you that he wants you involved in all aspects of his life.
7. Not Fussy
He’s not fussy at all about what the two of you do together. A guy who is truly in love will not care about the actual activities you get up to. He will just be happy that he gets to spend more time with the girl that he loves!
8. Bites the Bullet
He’ll go to events that he really doesn’t want go to just because you asked him. This shows that he is not selfish when it comes to giving you the love and support that you need, and that he loves spending time with you.
9. Gives Space
The clinching factor is that, even though he loves spending time with you, he respects you enough to recognize when you might need some personal space. He doesn’t see this as an insult to him. He knows that a little time spent apart is great for a relationship and helps it grow stronger.
Don’t we all want a man who not only talks the talk but walks the walk?
Comments
Fay: Hello?
peony: When u have been together for a long time and he tells you he loves you great feeling ever
Denise: That's so true proximity is what Women need sometimes.
jada: aww so romantic
Nida: The pet one is soooo true!
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