Brilliant Ways to Make Him Absolutely Crazy about You ...

Whether you're a seasoned dater or a love newbie, the quest to captivate your beau is a timeless endeavor, especially in this roller-coaster year of 2024. And who's to blame? The thrill of making someone think about you nonstop, showering their phone with loving texts, and having them go gaga over your tiniest quirks is incomparable. Trust me, as someone with a couple of degrees in social psychology (yes, I’m that nerdy friend) and a treasure chest of personal experience, I can relate!

First up, let's talk about the good ol' power of confidence. You know the drill: a confident you are an irresistible you. This doesn’t mean you need to walk around puffing your chest like a rooster in a parade. Rather, it's about recognizing your worth, expressing your thoughts genuinely, and embracing your quirks. The essence is to be unapologetically you, and that’s magnetic. Dive deeper into this in our Confidence section.

Ah, and the allure of mysteriousness! There's more to it than those tantalizing glances exchanged at a party. It’s the art of storytelling, the slight teasing in conversations, and keeping a part of your persona a delightful puzzle. Throw in a touch of enchanting spontaneity, and watch him gravitate towards you like a moth to a flame. Need tips? Check out the Maintaining Mystery part for some juicy tricks.

Now, don’t underestimate the sweetness of thoughtful gestures. We’ve crossed from grand gestures to the endearing simplicity of bringing his favorite coffee or slipping a cheesy note in his wallet. It's the small efforts that often make the grandest impact. And if you need ideas, our Simple Gestures has some heartwarming suggestions!

Mastering communication is next. Nothing says "I'm in this" like a great conversation that’s sprinkled with light jokes, deep discussions, and a little intellectual flirtation. You’d be surprised how sharing that bizarre trivia about the moon or quoting an inspiring book can make him admire you more.

And let's not forget the element of fun and laughter. An epic date night challenge or an impromptu laugh-fest can create a connection stronger than conversation alone. Peek into our Creating Fun Moments for more ways to make it unforgettable.

Strap in as we unravel these topics and more. You’re about to take a deep dive into brilliant dynamics, share a few laughs, and perhaps recall some of your hilarious dating escapades. Ready to make him crazy about you? Let's get started!

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1. Make Him Feel Valued

Even if you are the one who is secretly in charge, give his ego a boost every now and again by letting him show off his masculine side. Every man likes to have his ego massaged now and then. Whether it’s pretending to ask him for directions or letting him make all the big decisions in certain situations, the more valued he feels by you, the crazier he will become about you!

2. Indulge His Hobbies

Make the effort to indulge in some of the hobbies that he really loves, whether that means going to a game of football to watch his favorite team or sitting down to watch all four Die Hard movies one after the other. It might not be your favorite thing in the world, but he will love that you are at least taking an interest in the things that he really likes.

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3. Give Him Compliments

It’s not just us girls that like to be given a nice compliment every now and then. Whenever you think he’s looking particularly handsome or is dressed particularly well, make sure to let him know. Getting compliments is always nice and you always look more fondly on the person who has complimented you, so throw him a few kind words and he will be putty in your hands!

4. Be a Little Mysterious

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Many men love a little cat and mouse type playful nature in their relationships, so try to keep a touch of mystery about yourself that will drive him crazy and make him want you even more. There is nothing sexier than a sultry, seductive atmosphere that can be created by mystery, so act a little aloof now and then and make him wonder what he might be missing! Let him puzzle over your enigmatic smiles and secretive comments. When you leave some details unsaid, it fuels his curiosity, making you an irresistible enigma he can't help but be drawn to.

5. Don’t Crowd Him

Just because you are in a relationship is does not mean that you have to be together 24/7. Try to give him some space to do the things that he enjoys doing alone or to hang out with his friends. He’ll love you for trusting him and the periods of time spent apart will only serve to make your bond stronger. When you meet back up, he’ll want you more than ever.

6. Be a Little Suggestive

Try to maintain that touch of spice that can unfortunately so easily be lost when a relationship progresses from its early stages. This can be done in many ways, like sending a few suggestive and naughty texts throughout the day, buying some sexy underwear or even being a bit more dominant in the bedroom department than you usually are. These little changes in your routine will serve to keep him on his toes and anticipating what you will do next; an irresistible thought!

7. Be There for Him

Aside from all the sexy games and playful tips, an important aspect of your relationship is to always be there for your boyfriend when he needs a shoulder to lean on or a sensible head to talk to. Some men can find it hard to express themselves, but when they do find a person that they feel they can open up to, they will never want to let them go!

A man will fall in love with a woman who will help him become more and more the man he always wanted to be. If you manage to do this, he will have no choice but to crave being with you. By doing this, you are creating a positive energy that will encourage him to feel better about everything about himself. The more he feels good about himself next to you, or thanks to your positive energy, the more you will become irresistible to him.

How do you keep your man crazy for you? What's your best tip?

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Thanks for this it's really helpful

These are all so important! Especially number 6 and 7!

I am not getting married even though I been with my boyfriend 2 half years

All of those are true and helpful, one thing i do also is to cook for him

I definitely don't hate on black women dating or marrying white men. As long as the two of them are happy and can weather the storm of haters from both races, then that's a beautiful thing. A black woman that is with a white man is not doing me a disservice because there are still just as many of them out there looking for an eligible black man like myself.

Be yourself with him.

Yes!!!! I love it

This doesn't work... Men are just superficial scumbag assholes who only care about their weinerz!!!

I've been married a week👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 so true😹😹

I always have arguments with my babe .. Only because of some stupid staff

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