The Bright Side πŸ’πŸΏπŸ’πŸ½πŸ’πŸΌπŸ’πŸ» of Being Dumped πŸ’” ...

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I can hear you snort with derision.

How can there possibly be anything good in being dumped?

The first thing most girls do on being chucked (is that just a British expression?) is fall into a fit of despair.

But life is about ying and yang so to everything dark, there is something light.

Trust me when I say therefore, there is a bright side of being dumped.

1. It Can Make You Realize

It Can Make You Realize

One of the ways how being dumped is good for you is that it can help you to realize that even if you thought you were happy, there was obviously something wrong and you are better off out of it and making a fresh start.2

Nobody gets dumped when everything is completely perfect, so take some time to think about what went wrong and you can turn it into a learning exercise for next time around.

2. No More Annoying Habits!

No More Annoying Habits!

All of those little things that added up to really annoy you about your partner?

Well you don’t have to worry about hiding your true feelings anymore!

It might not have felt like it at the time, but suppressing your feelings about these annoyances can really have a negative impact on your day to day life.2

Now that you don’t have to contend with them anymore, you will start to feel a great sense of freedom and contentment that you never realized you missed.

3. Fewer Obligations

Fewer Obligations

Now that you are single again, you can get back to spending some time and focusing just on yourself.

A relationship brings with it many different obligations on your partner’s side, from going to events with his family to extra stress at birthdays and Christmas time.

Now that these obligations are gone, you can get back to focusing on your own life for a little bit;

it can have an almost meditative and therapeutic effect.

Freedom
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