9 Ways to Be the Best Girlfriend He's Ever Had ...

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As with athletes, only the greats go down in history;

when it comes to your man, there are ways to be the best girlfriend he’s ever had.

Be you a rookie or seasoned lean, mean, 30-something dating machine, understand one thing: finding your girlfriend style and channeling your inner goddess will set you apart from the rest of the pack.

Okay, I know that was overkill.

However, there are ways to be the best girlfriend he’s had that apply to every personality type.

1. Say What You Mean

This is not to be confused with being blunt, for I know that a lot of women panic at the idea of confronting a problem without any form of sugar coating.

There are however, ways to say exactly what you mean in a nonthreatening manner.

As most therapists advise, try using "I feel…when you" statements when you can.

They aren’t accusatory and they get your point across.

And if he asks you how you’re doing, don’t say fine unless you are just that.

I officially declare you too old for mind games, no matter how old you are.

Saying what you mean is one of the easiest, emotionally freeing ways to be the best girlfriend he’s ever had.

HuMAN

Comments:

Samantha
I'm so stealing the beer mug one from you because my girl loves to drink her beer...:) Haha...
Caro
Love these tips! I agree 100% and do most. Thanks!
llaurajn
if he dosnt accept u for who u are then get rid!! he should make an effort to
Karen
My man loves when I make him grilled cheese and make him iced tea. To him that's good enough
Aliza
Love it :)
karen
I have read the five love languages it's a brilliant book , wish I had read it years ago :-)
Dianeg
learn what his top "5 love languages" are and learn what yours are and discuss them with each other.
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