We all love to complain. There's something soothing about it. However, the list of complaints you have about your boyfriend shouldn't be a mile long, because there are some things he shouldn't be doing in the first place. Here are a few complaints that you shouldn't have about your boyfriend:
Your boyfriend should make you feel special. If he makes you doubt yourself by insulting you, or just neglecting you, then he's not the right guy for you.
He shouldn't touch you, unless he's reaching for your hand or giving you a kiss on the lips. If he hurts you once, he'll hurt you again, which means you need to get far away from him.
If he's giving you more reasons to cry than to laugh, you're in an unhealthy relationship. He should be one of the reasons why you're excited to wake up in the morning, not one of the reasons why you dread starting your day.
If he loves you and respects you, then he won't act inappropriately around other women. There's no reason for him to flirt around when he already has an amazing girl like you.
Your anniversary might slip his mind one year. However, he shouldn't forget to buy you a birthday gift or a holiday gift.
You shouldn't have to beg for your boyfriend's attention. He should give you what you need without being asked.
Your boyfriend shouldn't act like a stalker. He should trust you enough to let you see your friends without him.
You might not love his parents, but you shouldn't hate them, either. If you do, then you'll probably have a few problems in the future.
Your boyfriend doesn't have to be the most attractive person in the world. However, you should think that he's cute. Attraction is important.
If you want children, but he doesn't, then the relationship probably won't last. You should be with someone who wants the same type of future as you do.
There's no reason for your boyfriend to ignore you. If you text him, you should receive a text back.
He shouldn't expect you to dress like a model and act like a princess. He shouldn't expect you to stress yourself out, just to make him happy.
He should do the dishes just as often as you do. He should pay for meals as often as you do, as well.
You should be with someone who "gets" you. Otherwise, how are you going to talk to him about your wants and dreams?
Your boyfriend should listen when you speak. If he loves you, he'll actually care about what you have to say.
If he wants you to be happy, he'll make sure that you're satisfied in the bedroom. He'll alter his technique to make you moan.
If you don't think your relationship is going to last, then it probably won't. After all, you know more about your relationship than anyone else does.
If your boyfriend is right for you, then you shouldn't have any of these complaints. Have you ever had these complaints about a boyfriend or an ex?
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