If your boyfriend tells you that lately you are a bit too independent and that he is feeling neglected, try to find ways to make him feel more needed and wanted in your life. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t be independent and in control of your life, just make sure that you don’t make your guy feel undesired. Make your man feel loved and appreciated because he feels good about himself when he sees himself as a provider of your happiness and security. Here are 7 things that you can do to make your man feel more needed:
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1. Let Him Know You Respect Him
If you appreciate what your man does for you, just tell him that. Show him that you respect him and his decisions and tell him that you trust his judgement. Appreciate the little things that he does without expecting something in return and don’t take him for granted.
2. Let Him See That You Miss Him
In order to make your guy feel more needed and wanted, just show him that you miss him when he is not around. You can even text him something cute when he is at work or at school because it will surely make him smile and you know how gorgeous that beautiful smile of his is.
3. Thank Him
Every time your boyfriend does something nice for you, make sure that you thank him and that you show him how much you appreciate the wonderful things that he does for you. When you are in a relationship, it is very easy to overlook the little but significant gestures and take them for granted. So, send him a text saying thank you, give him an appreciative kiss or even give him a little gift to show your gratitude.
4. Don’t Get Bossy
Try to avoid becoming bossy in your relationship and acting like he is the only one who needs you and that you don’t need him back. Even though you may think that by displaying your independence to him, he will love and appreciate you more, this strategy can backfire against you easily and you will drive him further away.
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5. Ask Him for Advice
If you want to make your man feel wanted and needed, then just ask him for advice. This will show your significant other that you value his opinion and that you respect him enough to do something based on his judgement. He will swell up with happiness and he will feel good about himself.
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6. Be Affectionate
Show your man that you love him and that he is the most important person in the world for you if you want to make him feel needed. Do small things like hold his hand when you go for a walk, rest your head on his shoulder or on his chest if you are lying down. Be affectionate and show him how much he means to you.
7. When You Get Something for Yourself, Get Something for Him Too
Every time you buy something for yourself, try to buy something for your significant other too. For example, if you go to a coffee shop to get a coffee, get one for him as well. This way, he will know that he is always on your mind and this small gesture of affection will surely put a big smile on his face.
There are a lot of things you can do to make your boyfriend feel needed and wanted. I just mentioned a few in this little article, but I’m sure that there are many more I could add to this list. What other things can someone do to make their partner feel needed? Please share your thoughts with us in the comments section!
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Anna: Would love to see something for the girls to in the relationship. It's a two way street
Rose: 5 it so me I need to stop😓
Li: Love it!!! Thanks. 😉
Sophia: Bossy!!!! This ruins anything. I've learned so much from not being bossy. Best trait to toss!
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Denise: Very good article because sometimes I don't always tell my boyfriend how much I love and respect him and how much I value his opinion. He is always so caring and thoughtful. Always. I feel so blessed. He is the very best.
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