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Typical Things Guys Will Say if They're Crushing on You for the Clueless Girls ...

By Alicia

How can you tell if he’s crushing on you? There are some things that he’s likely to say to you if he is. Keep your ears open and listen for these key phrases. The more of them he says, the higher the probability he’s crushing on you!

1 “Hey, Gorgeous.”

There’s a chance he’s just a player who says this to every girl who walks by. You have to allow for that possibility. But if a guy is telling you that you’re beautiful then he usually truly feels that way. Note that he says this and look for other signs he’s crushing on you. You could be the girl of his dreams!

2 “I’d Never Treat My Girlfriend That Way.”

If you’re sharing your relationship troubles with a guy and he says this to you then he may be subtly letting you know that he’d never treat you that way if you were his girlfriend. He’s also letting you know his value system. He’s sharing with you that he values you in a way your current boyfriend may not. The most important thing worth noting here is that he cares about you. You may be unsure of exactly how he cares for you, but you can be sure he does if he’s making statements like this one.

3 “You Have Beautiful Eyes.”

Complimenting your eyes or another feature says he’s noticing you. He finds you unique and special. He wants you to know he sees you for the beautiful person you are. Men don’t hand out specific compliments like this lightly. If you’re getting compliments such as this one then yes, he’s almost certainly crushing on you.

4 “Let Me Get That for You.”

It’s possible that a guy could offer to get something for you just because he’s a gentleman and can’t stand by and watch a lady lug something heavy, even if you were doing just fine with it. But it’s also possible that he’s crushing on you. He wants to do things for you. He wants to let you know that if you were his then he would take very good care of you.

5 “I Love to See You Smile.”

A guy who’s crushing on you loves seeing you smile, making you smile and knowing that he put the smile on your face. Guys love to know they can make their girl happy. You may not be his girl yet, but he already feels that way about you. It’s a compliment to know your smile means that much to him.

6 “do You Have a Boyfriend?”

Ladies, it can’t get much more obvious than this one! He has definite interest and he’s scoping out the scene to see if there’s an opening for him. This is also a sign that he’s an honorable guy. He doesn’t want to cause trouble if you’re already in a relationship. That’s something to respect in a guy in this day and time when many guys don’t care if you’re already in a relationship.

7 “What Are You Looking for in a Boyfriend?”

If he’s asking you this question then it’s another definite sign he’s crushing on you. Not only that but he’s ready to do something about it. He’s asking you this question because he’s truly interested in your answer. He wants to know what you’re looking for and if he can fit the bill. If you’re crushing back then things are definitely headed in the direction you want them to go.

These are 7 typical things a guy says when he’s crushing on you. Is there a guy saying these things to you? I’d love to hear the details!

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