If you like a guy, you need to make a move. Don't worry, because you don't have to do anything big. You can start out small and then work your way up to the tough stuff. As long as you put in effort, you should be proud of yourself. So here are a few tips that'll help you land your crush:
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1. Make Eye Contact with Him
Don't glance away when your eyes meet. Make eye contact and then smile, so he knows you're friendly and approachable.
2. Talk to Him
Walk right up to him and say hello. After you introduce yourself, you'll feel a lot more comfortable talking to him.
3. Bring up an Event You Want to Attend
Mention that you've been dying to see a movie. Hopefully, he'll get the hint and ask you to see it with him.
4. Become Friends with His Friends
If you're nervous to talk to him, start by talking to his friends. Once you get in good with them, they'll put in a good word for you.
If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.
5. Like His Posts on Social Media
If you haven't added him on Facebook or Instagram yet, do so now. Then you can like his posts to show him you're interested.
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6. Ask Him to a Party
If you want to spend time with him outside of work or school, throw a party and invite him to it. Then he'll see you in a new environment.
7. Treat Him like Every Other Guy
If you're too nervous to speak to him, you'll never get to know each other. That's why you need to treat him like any other guy. He's only human, after all.
8. Be Positive
If you assume that he'd never like you, then you're going to psych yourself out. You have to think positively if you want to get anywhere with him.
9. Give Him Your Phone Number
You don't have to give him your number for him to set up a date. You can tell him you need it for emergencies, in case you miss a day of school or work and need updates from him.
10. Get Involved in Groups He’s in
If he's in a book club, you should join it. The more often you see him, the more chances you'll have to talk to him.
11. Dress Nicely
Men are visual creatures. They love seeing a sexy lady, so make sure you dress to impress.
12. Watch His Body Language
If you pay attention to what his body language is telling you, you'll be able to tell if he's in a good mood or not. On his happy days, walk up to him and make his day even brighter.
13. Flirt
Bat your eyes at him, lick your lips, and play with your hair. Do whatever you can to show him that you're interested, so he'll actually ask you out.
14. Compliment Him
Tell him how much you love his new haircut or how sexy his muscles look in his new shirt. He'll be flattered by whatever you comment on.
15. Give Him a Gift
Once you two get close, give him a little token of affection. Bake him some cookies or give him a gift from the dollar store that made you think of him.
16. Mention You’re Single
Don't simply hint at the fact that you're single. Make sure he knows that you don't have a boyfriend, so he realizes he has a chance with you.
17. Ask Him out
The quickest way to land a date with your crush is to ask him out yourself. Most men think it's sexy for a woman to take the initiative, so don't be embarrassed.
You'll never get a boyfriend unless you put yourself out there. Do you think you have a chance with the guy you're crushing on?
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Comments
Courtney: I have been thinking about trying #17 recently; there is even this good movie that is about to come out. But for some reason I was wondering if that would look bad and what if he says no? I was thinking about maybe waiting until the last day of class, that way if he does, I do not have to worry about seeing him anymore? LOL.
SmithIV4: Tried several of these but the dude just did not get it.
Minerva: My crush told me he liked me. I think it was easier because we are really good friends already. Try and become friends first instead of rushing. That makes both of u guys seem more comfortable with each other
Tiger_Roxy: Please tell me the cartoon that was in the last slide !
I'minluv: Number 7 the best thx a lot
Shmurdaay: Yeah but pity he lead me on and has a gf now smh 😕
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