Here Are the Dating Rules That No Longer Apply ...

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You don't need to follow a certain set of rules in order to obtain a boyfriend, especially the outdated rules. Times have changed, which means that you don't have to fit into a certain mold in order to get someone to like you. You can do that just by being yourself. While you're at it, here are the dating rules that no longer apply:

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1

You Should Wait to Call Him

There's an old rule that says you should wait three days to call someone after getting their number. However, that rule doesn't apply anymore, especially now that texting is popular. If a guy gives you his number, feel free to text him right away so that he has your number, too. That way, the lines of communication are open right away. Plus, people nowadays are more impatient, so no one really wants to wait to hear from someone they're interested in.

2

Men Should Initiate Everything

Men are no longer in charge of initiating everything. If you want to ask a guy out, then do it. If you want to kiss him, then lean right in. There's no reason for you to wait for him to make the first move when you're free to make it yourself. If he's more sheepish and shy than you are, then it makes sense for you to initiate everything.

3

The Man Should Always Pay

Men don't need to initiate anymore, and they don't need to pay either. If you make more money than your boyfriend does, then you should offer up your wallet, or at least ask him if he'd like to split the bill.

4

You Should Have Sex on the 3rd Date

Some people say that you should wait until the third date to have sex, but there's nothing sillier than that. You should sleep with someone when you're completely ready, whether it's on your tenth date or before you've even gone on your first date. Hook ups are common in the modern world, so it's okay if you make out with your crush before you go out to dinner with him.

5

Dates Should Be Impressive

Dates don't actually have to be exciting and expensive. If you're with the right person, you'll have just as much fun watching Netlix on the couch together as you would watching a movie in a theater. If you two are both broke, have your date nights at home. Free dates aren't necessarily bad dates.

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You Should Play Hard to Get

Playing hard to get isn't as fun as it looks. If a guy asks you out, don't say no just to make him suffer. Don't wait an hour to text him back either, especially if you're dying to type out a response. There's nothing unattractive about admitting your interest.

7

Certain Subjects Are off Limits

You don’t have to avoid talking about your ex, religion, or politics with your partner. Sure, those topics might make things awkward on a first date, but you're going to have to talk about them eventually. If your religious or political views differ, you might not last in the long run. And although you don't want to bring up your ex too often, you're going to have to be open about your past.

There's no set of rules that will help you find love. Just be yourself and the rest will fall into place. What other dating rules of the past do you think are outdated?

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This article was stupid. Sorry. Have sex before you go on the date and then what? You've already set the tone of what's to expect the next time you guys hang out. SEX.

Woah...! The moment you sleep a guy even before he takes you out for a date then you have to forget about the lovely dinners, presents name it. All the time you will be catching up that will mean sleeping with him. What memories will you have then about the first days of your relationship ? He will take you for granted incase you end up in a r/ship. Ladies let's be wise !

No wonder men treat woman the way they do! Woman has lost all their magic and mystery, not to talk about self respect and values

I'm so tired of the articles that entails how women should and should not be... I would agree that sleeping with a man too soon can come off easy but there are women who have who are in loving relationships... Perhaps it depends on the chemistry.

Play hard to get if you know you want to go out with him eventually. Sleeping with him whenever is entirely up to you but he is and easy come easy go. If you lie him then I don't see anything wrong with making him wait. I will say a month and it is just my opinion. But if you want then the same day but there is no fast rule about it. Just remember if you like each other then enjoy each other.

If these rules were rt id been married in jr highschool. No this dont apply to everyone smh im 41yrs old single with no kids n life alone in my own home paid for !!!!!! Yes i need alot of advice or answers? ????

I think it depends on the guy ladies...some are decent and some not so. Just gotta pick up on which one he is beware of the wolf in sheep's clothing. Some men are very adept at saying one thing but feeling another. If he likes YOU he will wait. If he doesn't then you haven't lost anything.

This article is ridiculous. There's nothing wrong with modesty. For a woman to get a man, she does not need to act in desperate.

Alka, having a husband isn't the most important thing in the world for a woman, don't be rude.

It's their choice. People are free to have their own opinion and if they want to wait till marriage, you have no right to belittle them for it. You live your how you want, and they'll live their lives how they want

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