Knowing the things he can't stand during sex is ultimately better for you both. Just like no two men are identical in looks (unless they're twins but that's not relevant here) no two men are identical in their tastes in the bedroom as well. What one man likes another doesn't. Instead of having a long, in depth, and somewhat boring conversation about everything he does and doesn't find a turn on, you can try to use these tips, by your tango.com, to figure out his likes and dislikes behind closed doors based on his zodiac sign.
1 Aries (March 21 - April 19)
Aries men hate when women talk in a baby voice all the time, but especially during sex. Aries men like their sex to be hot and fast, and they need a woman who is confident, strong and can handle their urgent needs. If you talk in a baby voice, it just makes his sexual dominance seem creepy and wrong.
Frequently asked questions
2 Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
The last thing that Taurus men want in bed is a flesh wound, so be careful how you bite. Taurus are all about sensuality and pleasure, not pain. If you bite in an aggressive way that draws blood, you're guaranteed to turn Taurus right off.
***
Taurus individuals crave a smooth and sensual experience; roughness is not their cup of tea. A gentle touch and a patient approach are crucial. They appreciate luxurious surroundings and ambient mood-setting: think soft music, dim lights, and silky sheets. Release any hurry from your mind – taking the time to explore and enjoy each other's bodies fully aligns with Taurus's love for deep, meaningful connections. Fast, frantic movements might just spoil the delicacies of the moment with Taurus – they're much more about the gradual build and full sensory experience. Keep it tantalizing and tender, and you'll captivate them completely.
3 Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
Gemini men can't stand it when you don't speak up when you don't like it. If anal isn't for you, don't try to fake enthusiasm for it. He wants to know what you like and what you don't like. Communication between partners is what Gemini finds especially erotic.
4 Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
Cancers can't stand it when you make a big deal over his junk, especially if he's not packing. Go for affection over fake admiration. Cancers are sensitive, and if you pretend, they'll just feel insecure — that's a real boner-killer.
***
Continuing with the theme of sensitivity, Cancer men appreciate genuine connection and dislike feeling exposed or judged for physical shortcomings. To keep the romantic vibe going, focus on creating an emotional bond. Whisper sweet nothings that are sincere. Your appreciation for him should be expressed in ways that make him feel secure and loved for who he is, not merely for his physical attributes. This will not only intensify the intimacy but will make him more attentive and passionate towards you.
5 Leo (July 23 - August 22)
Leos do not, repeat do not, like it when their partner has their eyes closed the whole time. Leos want to put on a show in bed, and they can't do that if their audience's eyes are shut.
6 Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
Virgos really hate it when their partner pretends that they don't care if they didn't orgasm. Virgos make it their life's mission to make sure you get yours. Seriously, they'll do research and everything, so if you act if it's no big deal, they get frustrated enough for the both of you.
7 Libra (September 23 - October 22)
Libras don't enjoy it when, instead of a forceful touch of his penis, you use a vice grip. Hey, the point is some friction, not to pull it off. Also, mix it up, don't do the same thing over and over again.
8 Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
Scorpios can't stand it when their partners make a ton of fake noise when they orgasm — it's lying in Scorpio's book. If you want to make some noise, make it, just don't pretend you're having a mind-blowing orgasm if you're not.
9 Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
Sagittarius men don't like when you say their name over and over again. Once or twice is cool, but not on a repeated loop — then it just becomes annoying.
10 Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
Capricorn men, especially Capricorn men with short hair, don't like having their hair pulled out by the roots. Sure, hair samples are great if it's a crime scene, but not if it's some healthy adult fun.
***
Capricorns value discipline and control, both in and outside the bedroom. They thrive on respect and boundaries, so grabbing at their meticulously groomed short hair is a sure-fire passion killer. Play it cool with this earth sign. They prefer a partner who respects their physical space as much as they respect their emotional fortitude. After all, for the goal-oriented Capricorn, the bedroom is yet another place to strive for perfection—preferably with every hair still in place.
11 Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
Aquarius men don't like it when their partner lies there like a slug, making Aquarius do all the work. Sex should be a joint effort and it's not up to Aquarius to be in control of your orgasm.
12 Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
Pisces men don't enjoy it when their partners don't reciprocate with oral. They're fine with going down on you, but don't leave him frustrated.
