Never Ask a Same-Sex Couple These Ridiculous Questions ...


When I came out as gay and I revealed that I had a girlfriend (now my wife!), I got asked ALL sorts of questions, from who is more butch all the way to why do I want the right to get married. If you aren't gay, you might not realize that these questions are offensive … but they are. Pay attention and be more aware!

1. To a Lesbian Couple: Are You Two Going to Adopt?

To a Lesbian Couple: Are You Two Going to Adopt?

No. We both have the parts to have a baby. We might just need a 'friend' to provide the sperm.

Who is Going to Propose?


peony blue
I have never asked anyone such a stupid question but then it is just as bad as asking a heterosexual couple when they are going to have children its like leave people alone to live their lives ...
Oh god those questions made me cringe
Assuming people who live together are a couple just because theirs 2 of them. They could be friends who just want to save money by living together instead of alone.
When people ask me things like this I counter with asking about their sex lives. Usually starting with "so we've both established you think I'm not an equal human" to make them more uncomfortable. And...
Veronica Knowles
All of these questions make sense to ask!!!!
I don't think I've ever heard the stereotype "gays and lesbians cheat more", but I like this article, it's a good read
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