Nice Guys are some of the best guys on the market aren't they ladies? They pull out your chair, have manners, are willing to do almost anything for you – who wouldn't want that? You'd be surprised how many women turn nice guys down just on principle. I'm here to give you the top 7 reasons why the nice guys finish, so maybe you'll take a second look at these guys when they ask you out!
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1. Not a Bad Boy
Oh, the bad boy perception, it's hot right? It's also a little dangerous, as those bad boys are prone to doing more harm than good. Most nice guys are turned down because a girl is looking for the bad boy. Well ladies, you might want to think twice about the nice guys that ask you out!
2. Mr. Agreeable
Girls don't like guys that just agree with them. A constant head nod, a constant yes, a constant agreeable opinion – it's not attractive guys! This is by far one of the top reasons why nice guys finish last, but truthfully girls, wouldn't it be nice not to fight with your guy over whether you're right or not?
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3. Not Decisive
It is a true misconception that nice guys can't make up their mind about anything. Bad boys are all about the decisions and the controlling and … not taking your opinion into consideration. Well ladies, wouldn't you rather have a guy that considers your opinion before making a decision? It's not that they are not decisive, they are just careful in their decision making!
4. Doesn't Take a Stand
Girls, do you really think that nice guys don't stand up for themselves? It's one of the biggest turn-offs about 'em right? Guys, girls like a guy with a little fight in 'em. You can still be a nice guy and have a backbone, remember that!
5. Not Powerful
A lot of the time, the bad boys are the ones that seem to have all of the power. That's not true at all girls! Nice guys actually hold a lot of power in what they say and how they carry themselves. They are considerate to their girlfriends, they treat them like princesses – that's pretty powerful stuff isn't it?
6. Zero Personality
A girl can snap judge a guy without him even opening up his mouth. If he looks like a nice guy, typically, there is no personality attached onto his niceness. Ladies, this isn't true! Some of the nicest guys I've ever met have some of the best personalities ever!
7. No Excitement
It might seem like the bad boy is the guy that has all of the excitement right ladies? It's a huge misconception that nice guys don't know how to excite their woman or how to keep things interested. Correction girls: nice guys really listen to their woman, so imagine where that can get them in the excitement range!
Ladies, it's hard to imagine that nice guys are desirable and it's hard not to give into the misconceptions about them right? Well, consider these 7 nice guys misconceptions! Not only do they listen really well, but nice guys really know how to treat a girl. So ladies, how many guys do you know that are nice? Have you ever given them a chance?
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Jean-Simon: they have to type of "Nice Guy" The first : He is genuinely a great person. If he is nice with other is because he want and he enjoy to do it. He is also able to say NO. the second: they are nice because they want to manipulate other or have no personality: they have no backbone, fake and can't say NO. TEST type 1 or type 2 In french type 1 could be call "Garçon gentil" and type 2 could be call "Gentil garçon" if you buy a drink to a girl to "Buy" time => Type 2 If you buy a drink to a girl to because you found she have a amazing personality and you like the way she are and you want to make her feels appreciated => Type 1 If after reading that you have think : « ah ... I see ... OK I must buy her a drink to make her feel appreciated » You are type 2 (gentil garçon) In that case you just want to buy girls time and manipulate her you are just a two-faced bastard. And nobody like two-faced bastard
Anonymous: Im dating a nice guy and he has been the best person Ive dated, but it is true. Guys who are nice need to step up, make decisions and have a backbone.
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