It's time to stop wondering if you deserve your boyfriend, and start wondering if he deserves you. You're an amazing woman, which means you shouldn't settle for anything less than the best. That's why you need to figure out if he actually deserves to be with you. Here are the signs that say he does:
Snapshot Survey
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1. He Appreciates Everything You do
When you give him a ride home, does he thank you? When you give him the best sex of his life, does he look appreciative, or does he act like it was no big deal because it's "your job?"
2. He Gives You Affection
Does he hug you and kiss you on the daily? Does he say those three little words whenever he gets the chance?
Frequently asked questions
Deserving you means he appreciates you, contributes positively to your life, and respects you as a partner. It’s about mutual respect and love.
Honestly, look for signs he is respectful, supportive, and treats you like a queen. If he genuinely cares about your happiness and well-being, that's a big green light!
If he's not valuing your time, disrespecting you, or making you feel unimportant, those are red flags. You deserve someone who lifts you up, not brings you down.
Sometimes guys feel this way due to insecurities or past experiences. It doesn’t always mean he doesn’t care; it might mean he needs reassurance or to work on himself.
Have an open and honest conversation. Tell him what’s important to you in a relationship. Communication is key in making sure both of you feel deserved and appreciated.
3. He Makes Plans
Does he wait for you to make plans for the weekend, or will he set something up himself?
4. He Talks to You before Making Decisions
Will he decide to blow his whole paycheck on a new gaming system before talking to you, or does he consult you before making any major decisions in his life?
5. He Compliments You
Does he tell you how pretty you look when you wake up? Does he remind you of how much he loves your smile whenever you laugh?
6. He Listens
Does he just nod his head along when you speak, or does he actually absorb the words you're saying?
7. He Talks to You about Everything
Does he tell you all about his day before you even ask? Or does he like to keep his stories a secret, even from you?
8. He Protects You
Will he defend you when his mother says something mean about you? Will he get in between you and a man who's saying inappropriate things to you?
9. He Keeps His Promises
Does he keep his word? Is he someone you can count on, no matter what?
10. He Doesn’t Lie or Cheat
Does he always tell you the truth, even when it's uncomfortable? Does he remain loyal to you, even though other girls are interested in him?
11. He Makes You Feel Better about Yourself
Does he make you want to be a better person? Does he make your life feel a little brighter?
12. He Treats You as an Equal
Does he talk down to you like you're inferior, or does he treat you like an equal?
13. He Puts You before Anyone else
Does he consider your feelings before he makes a decision? Does he try to make you happy, even if it makes things harder on himself?
14. He Believes in You
Does he genuinely think you can accomplish your goals? Does he show support for you during every step of the way?
15. You Both Put in Equal Effort
Does he do as many thoughtful things for you as you do for him? Do you split the housework and bills?
16. He Makes You Feel Beautiful
Does he neglect you, or does he make you feel special?
17. Your Parents like Him
Do your friends and family actually think that he's good enough for you? Do they encourage you to stay with him?
Never settle for less than you deserve! Do you think that you and your man deserve each other?
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