If you have developed feelings for another guy, but you have a man, you need to know the signs you should leave him. Having a secret crush while in a relationship can make your thoughts swirl in confusion. If you are facing this difficult problem and need a bit of clarity, I’m going to share the signs you should leave him.
1. Thoughts of Your Crush
There used to be a time when all you could think about was your boyfriend. It seemed like everything reminded you of him, so you always had your man on your mind. One of the early signs you should leave him is when you can’t stop thinking about your crush. Thoughts of your crush invade your mind even during intimate moments with your current boyfriend.
2. Follow Your Heart
Follow your heart when you are trying to choose between your boyfriend and your crush. One of the ways to figure out what your heart really wants is to do this test. Close your eyes. If both of these guys were to disappear and you got to choose which one came back-who would you bring back into your life? If you chose your crush, it's obvious your current man is not right for you.
3. Who Makes You Happy?
Another tip that helps you choose the right guy is to figure out which one makes your life better. Who makes you feel happy, loved and beautiful? Does your boyfriend show you that he loves you on a daily basis in little ways or is it your crush that is showering you with attention? These are the type of difficult questions you need to ask yourself so you can determine who is the right person for you.
4. Boyfriend is Neglecting You
One of the times that a crush is likely to develop is when your man is neglecting you. You might turn to your crush for attention because your boyfriend isn’t giving you any. If you feel neglected but you still want the relationship to work, bring the issue up with your boyfriend. Give him a chance to change his behavior but if he doesn’t, then letting him go may be the best thing for you.
5. Your Crush is a Better Fit
Create a list of the qualities you are looking for in a boyfriend-everything you can think of. Then compare your boyfriend to this list and do the same for your crush. Take a close look at your list and figure out which guy makes a better partner for you. Then ask yourself, are you willing to let go of your man for a new guy?
6. Changing Feelings
You used to feel deep love for your boyfriend and would do anything within reason to make him happy. But lately, those feelings have faded and you don’t see him the same way as you used to. One of the warning signs you should leave your relationship even if you don’t have another person in mind is when your feelings have changed. Being in a relationship that is lukewarm and lacks passion is torturous and you deserve better.
7. Fighting More
Every a healthy relationship will have disagreements and fights, but the couple makes an effort to work things out. If you are looking for the exit sign of a relationship, you are going to fight a lot more frequently. You might find that you even pick fights on trivial issues just so your boyfriend can do the dirty work and initiate a breakup. If you are truly unhappy and prefer to be with the other guy, don’t prolong the inevitable.
These are just a couple of signs that indicate you should try dating your crush. So ladies, how did you know it was time to leave your boyfriend for a crush?