17 Signs You Shouldn't Date Him: Red Flags for Every Woman

Inmate … Need I Say More? • He Isn't Available .. Ever • He Doesn't Even Text You Back • It's Never Enough • He Doesn't Appreciate Your Body • More ...

By Heather • Oct 30, 2015 MD

Navigating the world of modern dating can be a whirlwind of emotions. We all get into bad relationships or situations that don't feel right, but when you're in deep, it can be hard to see the truth. How can you tell when it's time to walk away? What are the subtle and not-so-subtle warnings? Whisper users have shared their most honest insights below to help you gain clarity. Whether it's a lack of respect or a feeling in your gut, these signs are here to guide you.

| Sign | Why It Matters | Impact on You | | :--- | :--- | :--- | | Lack of Communication | Communication is the foundation of trust. | Feeling lonely and unheard. | | Constant Criticism | You deserve someone who lifts you up. | Low self-esteem and anxiety. | | Unavailability | Your time and energy are valuable. | Feeling like an afterthought. |

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1. Inmate … Need I Say More?

Inmate … Need I Say More?

2. He Isn't Available .. Ever

He Isn't Available .. Ever

3. He Doesn't Even Text You Back

He Doesn't Even Text You Back

4. It's Never Enough

It's Never Enough

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. He Doesn't Appreciate Your Body

He Doesn't Appreciate Your Body

If you're feeling unsure, it might be helpful to look at healthy relationship patterns to see how your current situation compares.

6. They Change You – Completely

They Change You – Completely

7. He's Not Really into You That Way

He's Not Really into You That Way

8. Why Aren't You Dating Him?

Why Aren't You Dating Him?

9. He Hurts You .. All the Time

He Hurts You .. All the Time

10. No Strings Attached Sex .. Seriously?

No Strings Attached Sex .. Seriously?

Quick Self-Check Questions:

  • Do I feel energized or drained after spending time together?
  • Can I be my authentic self around him?
  • Does he respect my boundaries?

11. You Don't Actually like Him All That Much

You Don't Actually like Him All That Much

12. He Really Isn't Your Soulmate

He Really Isn't Your Soulmate

13. He's Got 'stuff' to do …

He's Got 'stuff' to do …

14. His Priorities Aren't Straight

His Priorities Aren't Straight

15. Why Flirt?

Why Flirt?

Knowing when to call it quits is never easy, but there are often clear reasons to break up that we shouldn't ignore.

16. You Shouldn't Be Trapped … Ever

You Shouldn't Be Trapped … Ever

17. The Frayed Trust …

The Frayed Trust …

For more advice on navigating difficult relationship dynamics, check out these resources on Psychology Today.

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  • Ikaaang

    2015-10-31T04:17:28.260Z

    True ;3 it’s what happening right now . He can’t even drop a single message to me . It’s already happening for 3consecutive days deymn!
  • lostforlove2234

    2015-12-09T19:15:13.183Z

    @Kris its an app, still all that and all you can do is critisize, like really.. obviously someone created them, but they were definetly knowing what they were talking about, keep your comments like that to yourself, for real.. no negativity needed
  • Bobbie

    2015-10-31T19:47:18.715Z

    Have. Some. Self. Respect.
  • Kris

    2015-11-02T06:06:21.535Z

    Whoever wrote the sayings needs to learn proper grammar & punctuation...like the difference between possessives and plurals: the difference between girls, girl's, and girls', for example...second grade English, if I recall correctly...
  • Brooke

    2015-10-31T18:34:16.333Z

    This is sad
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