17 Signs He Actually Deserves to Be with You ...

17 Signs He Actually Deserves to Be with You ...
By Holly • May 30, 2026 MD

It's time to stop wondering if you deserve your boyfriend, and start wondering if he deserves you. You're an amazing woman, which means you shouldn't settle for anything less than the best. That's why you need to figure out if he actually deserves to be with you. Here are the signs that say he does:

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1. He Appreciates Everything You do

He Appreciates Everything You do When you give him a ride home, does he thank you? When you give him the best sex of his life, does he look appreciative, or does he act like it was no big deal because it's "your job?"

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2. He Gives You Affection

He Gives You Affection Does he hug you and kiss you on the daily? Does he say those three little words whenever he gets the chance?

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3. He Makes Plans

He Makes Plans Does he wait for you to make plans for the weekend, or will he set something up himself?

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4. He Talks to You before Making Decisions

He Talks to You before Making Decisions Will he decide to blow his whole paycheck on a new gaming system before talking to you, or does he consult you before making any major decisions in his life?

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5. He Compliments You

He Compliments You Does he tell you how pretty you look when you wake up? Does he remind you of how much he loves your smile whenever you laugh?

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6. He Listens

He Listens Does he just nod his head along when you speak, or does he actually absorb the words you're saying?

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7. He Talks to You about Everything

He Talks to You about Everything Does he tell you all about his day before you even ask? Or does he like to keep his stories a secret, even from you?

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8. He Protects You

He Protects You Will he defend you when his mother says something mean about you? Will he get in between you and a man who's saying inappropriate things to you?

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9. He Keeps His Promises

He Keeps His Promises Does he keep his word? Is he someone you can count on, no matter what?

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10. He Doesn’t Lie or Cheat

He Doesn’t Lie or Cheat Does he always tell you the truth, even when it's uncomfortable? Does he remain loyal to you, even though other girls are interested in him?

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11. He Makes You Feel Better about Yourself

He Makes You Feel Better about Yourself Does he make you want to be a better person? Does he make your life feel a little brighter?

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12. He Treats You as an Equal

He Treats You as an Equal Does he talk down to you like you're inferior, or does he treat you like an equal?

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13. He Puts You before Anyone else

He Puts You before Anyone else Does he consider your feelings before he makes a decision? Does he try to make you happy, even if it makes things harder on himself?

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14. He Believes in You

He Believes in You Does he genuinely think you can accomplish your goals? Does he show support for you during every step of the way?

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15. You Both Put in Equal Effort

You Both Put in Equal Effort Does he do as many thoughtful things for you as you do for him? Do you split the housework and bills?

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16. He Makes You Feel Beautiful

He Makes You Feel Beautiful Does he neglect you, or does he make you feel special?

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17. Your Parents like Him

Your Parents like Him Do your friends and family actually think that he's good enough for you? Do they encourage you to stay with him?

Never settle for less than you deserve! Do you think that you and your man deserve each other?

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  • OhMeOhMy10

    2015-11-17T07:10:57.281Z

    Must have all 17 & nothing less... No matter what... We deserve the best ladies... If not more!!!
  • nicolelucarelli

    2015-11-16T20:53:12.138Z

    I have learned that the only guys that deserve to be with me are either Sam or Dean. Or both.
  • BrittanyBAKER

    2015-11-16T16:34:05.956Z

    These are important things to ask yourself. :)
  • Neeneejay

    2015-11-16T15:45:58.998Z

    Supernatural 😍
  • Thandar

    2015-11-21T13:20:38.584Z

    These thing are too drama in real life , ex , money , time and so on
  • SHARKGIRL

    2015-11-18T05:53:44.942Z

    SPN SPN SPN
  • Zelma

    2015-11-16T17:09:58.650Z

    Spn has a gif for everything
  • peony

    2015-11-16T18:27:08.917Z

    Yep but it takes two to tango
  • Elaine

    2015-11-22T22:08:01.219Z

    They exist :)) I just broke up with one of them.. He was all of those things to me but it wasn't the other way around and it wasn't fair to him.. Remember that the guys aren't the only ones who have to put effort in a relationship.
  • Sylvie

    2015-11-18T02:50:38.292Z

    God are u for real??? Is there actually men like this that exists still now days!!!! God I wish!!!!
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