It doesn't matter if you're losing your virginity or are already a pro in the bedroom. Before you sleep with anyone new, you should think things through. You don't want to end up heartbroken or with an STD. To protect your heart and your body, here are a few signs that you shouldn't have sex with him:
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1. He’s Selfish
If he's selfish in your relationship, he'll be just as selfish in the bedroom. That means sex will be all about him, and you won't get a chance to orgasm.
2. He’s a Bad Kisser
If you don't like kissing him, why would you even consider sleeping with him? Find someone you actually connect with.
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3. He Won’t Get Tested
You don't want an STD. If he won't get tested to see if he has one, you shouldn't risk sleeping with him.
4. You're Worried He’ll Leave You
You shouldn't sleep with him to keep him around. The plan will almost always backfire.
5. He’s Being Pushy
A good guy will wait until you're ready. If he's pressuring you, then you should find someone who actually respects you.
6. You Have Nowhere Private to Go
You shouldn't have sex with him in the backseat of a car. If he's unable to take you to a private room with a big comfy bed, then you shouldn't have sex with him.
7. You’re Not Attracted to Him
You're not shallow for turning down a man you find unattractive. Looks matter when it comes to sex.
8. He Tells Everyone about His Sex Life
Do you really want the rest of the world knowing what happens behind closed doors?
9. He Doesn’t Respect You
Never let a man treat you like you're inferior. You two are equals, and he should act like it.
10. He Doesn't Want a Relationship
If he doesn't want to call you his girlfriend, but you want him to be your boyfriend, you shouldn't sleep with him. You'll end up with a broken heart.
11. He Won’t Use a Condom
Condoms are the only way you'll be able to protect yourself from STDs and pregnancies. If he won't use a condom, you shouldn't waste your time with him.
12. You Don’t Trust Him
If you think he's going to cheat on you, don't give him the satisfaction of having sex with you.
13. He Makes You Feel Ugly
Sex should make you feel beautiful. If you're going to be worried about your looks the whole time, then you shouldn't even go through with it.
14. You Don’t Have Any Chemistry
You won't have a good time, unless you're sleeping with someone you have a connection with. Wait for a man you can't wait to sleep with.
15. He Won’t Listen to “no”
If sex ends up hurting, he should climb off of you. But if he doesn't listen to the word "no," you're going to have a problem on your hands.
16. He Makes You Uncomfortable
You should only sleep with men you're comfortable around. Otherwise, you'll have a horrible experience.
17. You Don’t Actually Want to
If you don't want to sleep with him, don't sleep with him. It's as simple as that.
Don't make the mistake of sleeping with the wrong man. What other red flags should stop you from having sex with a certain someone?
Comments
peony: This is a hard one!
Alexii95: If you are unsure if you want to sleep with him, you probably shouldn't do it...
Cookie: If he isnt with you, and he likes someone else and wants to hook up before getting serious with that other person
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