Sometimes, you date a jerk. Doesn't have to be a boyfriend, either. Girlfriends can be jerks. It just happens. You somehow stumble upon the reality that you are, in fact, dating a big old butt hole. It's possible your family and friends knew first. It's possible that your sly significant other managed to disguise that jerky attitude. The point is, it happens. It's okay. Once you discover the truth, you start feeling things, doing things, and experiencing things – things like these.