Read on to discover a few pretty sneaky ways to get a guy to ask you out. Of course, first you have to get his attention and get him to like you too. Let that guy know that you’re interested; just try not to make it too obvious. Allow him to work for your love but give him a few clues that would suggest him that you are interested as well. Here are a few very sneaky ways to get a guy to ask you out:
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1. Share an Interest
One of the sneaky ways to get a guy to ask you out is by sharing one of his interests. Even if at first you are not that passionate about his hobbies, you may discover that you actually like some of them, so what better way to see each other more often than by sharing a common interest. Also, it will be much easier for him to ask you out since he will have an excuse to do it.
Oh, totally! You can start by showing genuine interest in what he likes. Listen to him, laugh at his jokes, and maybe drop a compliment here and there. It’s all about making him feel special when you're around!
I get it, making the first move can be nerve-wracking! Start small. Make eye contact, smile, and try to get into his circle of friends. Sometimes showing a little interest can be the nudge he needs to make the first move himself.
Absolutely! In fact, asking about his weekend plans is a great way to show you're interested in his life. You can casually bring it up in conversation. Just make sure it feels natural!
Subtle hints can work wonders! Mentioning activities or places you’d love to visit can be great. For instance, 'I've been dying to try out that new café downtown.' If he’s interested, he might pick up on the hint and ask you to go together.
Sometimes guys can be a bit oblivious! If your hints aren't working, you might need to be more direct. You could say something like, 'We should hang out sometime,' or even plan something fun and invite him along. A little nudge never hurts!
2. Let Him Know Your Routine
If you want to get a guy to ask you out but you don’t want to be too obvious, then you could simply let him know your routine. For example, you could tell him that after class, you will go for a run in the park and afterwards, you will go get a drink at that café in your neighborhood. This way, he will have the chance to just show up to that place you are going and this will also take off the pressure of a date.
Oh, totally! You can start by showing genuine interest in what he likes. Listen to him, laugh at his jokes, and maybe drop a compliment here and there. It’s all about making him feel special when you're around!
I get it, making the first move can be nerve-wracking! Start small. Make eye contact, smile, and try to get into his circle of friends. Sometimes showing a little interest can be the nudge he needs to make the first move himself.
Absolutely! In fact, asking about his weekend plans is a great way to show you're interested in his life. You can casually bring it up in conversation. Just make sure it feels natural!
Subtle hints can work wonders! Mentioning activities or places you’d love to visit can be great. For instance, 'I've been dying to try out that new café downtown.' If he’s interested, he might pick up on the hint and ask you to go together.
Sometimes guys can be a bit oblivious! If your hints aren't working, you might need to be more direct. You could say something like, 'We should hang out sometime,' or even plan something fun and invite him along. A little nudge never hurts!
3. Play the Damsel in Distress
In order to get him to ask you out, you could try playing the damsel in distress because men want to be heroes and most guys can’t help themselves when a pretty girl asks for their help. Just ask him to help you. For example, ask him if he can help you fix that thing that it’s broken in your home and if he does like you back, then he will use any excuse just to be with you.
Oh, totally! You can start by showing genuine interest in what he likes. Listen to him, laugh at his jokes, and maybe drop a compliment here and there. It’s all about making him feel special when you're around!
I get it, making the first move can be nerve-wracking! Start small. Make eye contact, smile, and try to get into his circle of friends. Sometimes showing a little interest can be the nudge he needs to make the first move himself.
Absolutely! In fact, asking about his weekend plans is a great way to show you're interested in his life. You can casually bring it up in conversation. Just make sure it feels natural!
Subtle hints can work wonders! Mentioning activities or places you’d love to visit can be great. For instance, 'I've been dying to try out that new café downtown.' If he’s interested, he might pick up on the hint and ask you to go together.
Sometimes guys can be a bit oblivious! If your hints aren't working, you might need to be more direct. You could say something like, 'We should hang out sometime,' or even plan something fun and invite him along. A little nudge never hurts!
4. Let Him Know That You Are Looking for a Relationship
Just let him know that you are trying to find your soul mate and that you are looking for a relationship. Drop a few hints here and there and suggestto him that he caught your attention. This way, he will know that you are available and if he is interested in you, he will find the courage to ask you out on a date.
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If you're ready to take the next step in your relationship with a guy, then let him know that you're looking for a relationship. Drop hints that you're interested in him and let him know that you're available. This will give him the courage to ask you out on a date. If he doesn't seem to be taking the hint, then you can try other subtle methods, such as spending more time with him, complimenting him, or asking him out yourself. Whatever you do, make sure that you're honest and upfront about your intentions. That way, you'll be sure to get the response you're looking for.
Oh, totally! You can start by showing genuine interest in what he likes. Listen to him, laugh at his jokes, and maybe drop a compliment here and there. It’s all about making him feel special when you're around!
I get it, making the first move can be nerve-wracking! Start small. Make eye contact, smile, and try to get into his circle of friends. Sometimes showing a little interest can be the nudge he needs to make the first move himself.
Absolutely! In fact, asking about his weekend plans is a great way to show you're interested in his life. You can casually bring it up in conversation. Just make sure it feels natural!
Subtle hints can work wonders! Mentioning activities or places you’d love to visit can be great. For instance, 'I've been dying to try out that new café downtown.' If he’s interested, he might pick up on the hint and ask you to go together.
Sometimes guys can be a bit oblivious! If your hints aren't working, you might need to be more direct. You could say something like, 'We should hang out sometime,' or even plan something fun and invite him along. A little nudge never hurts!
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5. Let His Friends Know You Are Interested
If you want that guy you like to ask you out on a date just mention this little detail to one of his friends but make sure to tell them to keep it a secret. Even though this approach is kind of sneaky, it really works. None of his friends will keep their mouths shut and they will tell him that you like him. If he feels the same about you, he will step up and ask you out.
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This method of getting a guy to ask you out is a subtle way to make your interest known. It is important to let his friends know that you are interested in a discreet manner, making sure to tell them to keep it a secret. This approach is likely to be successful as his friends will not be able to resist telling him that you like him. If he returns your feelings, he will then take the initiative and ask you out on a date. This is a great way to get a guy to ask you out without making the first move yourself.
Oh, totally! You can start by showing genuine interest in what he likes. Listen to him, laugh at his jokes, and maybe drop a compliment here and there. It’s all about making him feel special when you're around!
I get it, making the first move can be nerve-wracking! Start small. Make eye contact, smile, and try to get into his circle of friends. Sometimes showing a little interest can be the nudge he needs to make the first move himself.
Absolutely! In fact, asking about his weekend plans is a great way to show you're interested in his life. You can casually bring it up in conversation. Just make sure it feels natural!
Subtle hints can work wonders! Mentioning activities or places you’d love to visit can be great. For instance, 'I've been dying to try out that new café downtown.' If he’s interested, he might pick up on the hint and ask you to go together.
Sometimes guys can be a bit oblivious! If your hints aren't working, you might need to be more direct. You could say something like, 'We should hang out sometime,' or even plan something fun and invite him along. A little nudge never hurts!
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6. Weekend Plans
To get the guy you like to ask you out, you could try talking with him about his weekend plans. If he says that he wants to do a specific thing, you could say that you love doing that too and he may ask you to join him. If it’s something you’ve never tried before, you could just tell him that you always wanted to try to do that thing.
Oh, totally! You can start by showing genuine interest in what he likes. Listen to him, laugh at his jokes, and maybe drop a compliment here and there. It’s all about making him feel special when you're around!
I get it, making the first move can be nerve-wracking! Start small. Make eye contact, smile, and try to get into his circle of friends. Sometimes showing a little interest can be the nudge he needs to make the first move himself.
Absolutely! In fact, asking about his weekend plans is a great way to show you're interested in his life. You can casually bring it up in conversation. Just make sure it feels natural!
Subtle hints can work wonders! Mentioning activities or places you’d love to visit can be great. For instance, 'I've been dying to try out that new café downtown.' If he’s interested, he might pick up on the hint and ask you to go together.
Sometimes guys can be a bit oblivious! If your hints aren't working, you might need to be more direct. You could say something like, 'We should hang out sometime,' or even plan something fun and invite him along. A little nudge never hurts!
7. Be Approachable
Try to always be friendly and approachable, especially when you’re around that guy you like so much. This way, he will see that there’s nothing to worry about and he will feel more comfortable asking you out. Just have fun together, joke around and enjoy each other’s company. He will feel good with you and he will want to spend more time by your side.
Getting a guy to ask you out can be a bit challenging sometimes but it’s not an impossible thing to achieve if you just use a few simple tricks. Do you know any other sneaky ways to get a guy to ask you out? Please tell us about them in the comments section!
Sources:
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ILoveIt: I think being approachable is so important! So many girls I know send off a vibe that guys don't want to deal with.
Miss: I agree with being nice and approachable. I feel as though a guy can read my body language and if the universe deems me ready for a relationship - I'll personify that unknowingly and more genuinely than ever before.
Alyssa: Well im 14 idk i like this guy a lot and it seems that him and i have a ton,in common anf my 8th grade dance is friday and i really want him to ask me. Him and his friends know i like him but idk
Karaoke: I like this guy but I don't know if I want to date him since he is a bit of a player. But this really helped I will just see his reactions to these settle hints and see if I could possibly date him
Denmarie: Um... No thanks lol this sounds like advice from a 16 year old lol! I have never done any of these things and have never had a problem with guys asking me out on dates
Lisa: 4 and 5 i would never ever do
Tieia: Just using the word sneaky turns me off. I never had a problem!
Serene: If a guy is interested, he will ask the girl out. If he not interested, nothing's going to move him!
Luana: If you're interested why not ask him out? A man doesn't exclusively have to ask the woman.
goddessoflight: well if your gona do all the things suggested here u may as well also wear a sign that says "desperate hoe will take any average joe ,apply below"
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