Although sex is all about pleasure, there are plenty of us out there who firmly believe that it can be about power as well! Once you get the hang of mixing the two together in the perfect way, then you are on to a real winner! There are so many different dynamics to explore in the bedroom and power should definitely be one that features from time to time. Here are some of the best sex positions for power and pleasure!
This involves laying down on your sides and facing each other, then scooting super close, placing your leg over your partner’s leg, and allowing them to penetrate you. This is a great position because it gives both of you the power to control the tempo and the movement of the intercourse, giving your partner the power to dictate the motion of the ocean, but also allowing you to make sure he doesn’t pound too fast!
Lazy Sunday is a great position for couples who want to experience pleasure and power in their intimate moments. It is a position where both partners lay down facing each other. The partners then scoot close to each other and one partner places their leg over the other partner’s leg. After this, the partner who is on top can penetrate the other partner.
This position is great for couples because it gives both partners the power to control the movement and the tempo of the intercourse. The partner on top has the power to dictate the motion of the intercourse, while the partner on the bottom can make sure the partner on top does not go too fast. This position also allows both partners to be comfortable and relaxed, as it is not a strenuous position.
The Lazy Sunday position allows for both partners to be in control and experience pleasure at the same time. It is a great position for couples who want to slow down and take their time with each other. It is also a great position for couples who want to experience a more intimate connection during intercourse.
Instead of the usual on top position that has you straddling him like a cowgirl, distribute your weight evenly on your forearms with your knees bent between a 45 degree and 90 degree angle. This results in you having much more intimate body contact with your man when you are on top, and you can maintain a much more steady rhythm.
The Woman on Top Plank position doesn't just enhance intimacy; it also gives you greater control over the angle and depth of penetration, allowing for targeted G-spot stimulation. With your forearms planted firmly, you can grind, sway or rock back and forth, finding the exact motion that sends shivers down your spine. And don't forget to lock eyes with your partner; the intensity of the gaze can add an extra layer of connection, turning your physical interaction into an emotional one as well. Remember to communicate with your partner to discover the perfect pace that pleases you both.
You know that scene between Emma Stone and Olivia Colman in The Favourite? Yeah, you should pretty much just replicate that! Have you partner sit back on the couch or lay back on the bed, and proceed to start massaging their legs from the ankles up, nice and slowly to build the tension. You will have complete power over their pleasure, and you get to dictate the tempo and pace. He won’t be able to feel the maximum sensations until you decide to put your hands in the right places!
As you glide your hands up and down their thighs, you can tease by brushing up against their most sensitive areas, yet not quite making the full contact they're craving. Whispers and sultry looks exchange between you two as you maintain eye contact, reminding them who's in control. The subtle art of touch paired with the electric anticipation makes for a potent mix, driving your partner wild with desire. Remember, anticipation can be the most powerful aphrodisiac. When it's time, and you'll know when, the power to tip them over the edge will be at your fingertips, quite literally.
Rather than trying to find a position that you both fit into perfectly, instead, try laying next to each other and touching yourself instead. There is something very sexy and powerful about being so close to someone and only touching yourself. In a weird way, the intimacy of it can actually bring you closer together, and obviously, you both have equal power in giving yourselves the pleasure.
Standard missionary is a thing of the past, it’s all about this upgrade nowadays! Get in the familiar missionary position, but this time stack two or three pillows under your bottom so that your partner can more easily enter you without you having to do so much bucking about and thrusting too. Having this pillow assist means that you can achieve much deeper and more pleasurable penetration; your bodies fit together like jigsaw pieces with that slight elevation!