The Difference between a Serious Relationship and a Fling ...

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So you're dating someone new, and you really like them. After a while, it may become clear that this is shaping up to be a long-term deal. But until this happens, you may be unsure about where it's going. And you may think you're in it for the long term while the guy you're dating sees it just as a fling. How can you tell if what you have is going to develop into a serious relationship, or if it's just a fling …?

1. He Makes Seeing You a Priority

It's fine for a couple to spend time apart, in fact it's healthy for you to have your own interests. But your partner should make seeing you a priority at least some of the time. If he'd always rather see a game with his friends than go out with you, then he's really not that enthused about seeing you - and it's possible that he's just using you to pass the time.

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Comments:

TiFFANiE
The truth !! & what hurts the most is the feeling of being stupid, not valued &' lets nit forget embarrassed
chiquitilla
It's happened to me. Texting he was very romantic and was always all talk, but when it came to doing things all he wanted to do is stay indoors, and he would always choose his friends over me. I thoug...
Ashleypaige311
My best friend for two years used me just so he could touch me... He dumped me after that and I feel so abused... I haven't been able to think the same about men after this and it's all because of him...
Megan
I agree with "SnowLion."& I have sympathy for Steph5-what a jerk he is!
Shannon Bauer
I did my life back I can use can I try it and I love that I can going through my life is going to be not good in life o have been going myself and happened to me a lot my problem of ex with a boy and ...
NC
Sadly , I don't think it's about " being hurt " by the guy when you realize you didn't mean anything , but how stupid and embarrassed you feel after wards
Snowlion
I used to think feeling anxious was just "butterflies", and men who made me feel nauseous were "exciting". Now I know those gut feelings are my intuition, which is never wrong. It's normal to feel a l...
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