Even though sometimes it can be a bit hard to understand them, men and women are not that different after all. A lot of women think that men can easily puzzle us and tear us apart inside without feeling any remorse. But things are not always how they seem to be. Men have feelings too, they seek true love as well and they would do anything in their power to make their significant other happy when they fall in love. There are a few things men wish women knew about them so that we could understand them better. Here are 7 things men love more than we realize:
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1. Women Remember Things That They Tend to Forget
A lot of men have a tendency to forget certain things the moment they are told. Women, on the other hand, tend to remember every little detail of every conversation they've had since they have an incredible memory. A lot of men admire their girlfriends for possessing this trait since they know that they can always count on them if they forget to remember something important.
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The meticulous attention to detail that many women exhibit is often a subtle layer of their intelligence that goes unspoken but deeply appreciated. They are not just holding onto memories; they are guardians of the sentimental timeline, always ready to recall a precious moment or provide that critical piece of information at just the right time. As partners in crime and keepers of secrets, their ability to jog our memories is a silent superpower that often becomes the glue in relationships, providing comfort and continuity when life gets chaotic.
2. They Love Our Coddling
When it comes to being sick, men can turn into real cry babies sometimes. On the other hand, women can go days without their partners knowing they are sick. Men love the fact that women always take the time to baby them and to care for them when they aren’t feeling well. It shows them that they are being loved and it makes them feel needed and wanted by their partners.
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3. They Love That We Know Where Everything is
Have you noticed that your guy always asks you if you know where he can find a specific thing? Men love the fact that you are so organised and that all the things in your house have a designated place. They think that this is an incredible trait and they love the fact that they can always count on you when they need to find something.
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The tendency to keep your shared domains clutter-free and systematically arranged is not just about cleanliness—it's about providing a sense of order and stability in his life. When he observes how effortlessly you keep track of various items, it speaks volumes about your ability to manage your life and surroundings. This organizational prowess often extends beyond the physical space; it reassures him that in the chaos of everyday life, there's a partner who can bring about peace and structure. It's the little moments when he finds his misplaced keys or that book he's been searching for in the exact place you said they would be, that he's silently grateful for.
4. They Love That We Are Soft and That We Smell Good
A lot of men love the fact that their girlfriends always seem to have the softest skin and that they smell great all the time. They love when women take care of themselves and they try to do the same too. They appreciate the efforts you make to look good, but they often think that there is nothing sexier than a woman in sweatpants and with no makeup on.
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The tactile sensations of soft skin are irreplaceable, providing a comforting and soothing experience that goes beyond the visual. It's not just about the allure of touch; the scent a woman carries can evoke powerful memories and emotions, making each embrace a multi-sensory experience. Men often treasure these moments of intimacy, where the simplicity and authenticity of their partner's presence are celebrated—no extravagant attire needed, just the genuine connection that comes from being close to someone who cares about their well-being in body and spirit.
5. They Love That Women Are Good Listeners
Most men admire women for being such great listeners. When they have an emotional problem to solve, they would rather talk to one of their female friends than to one of their male friends because they know that women will listen carefully to what they have to say so that they can come up with the best advice possible.
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Understanding and empathy often come naturally to women, and men deeply appreciate this. They find solace in the fact that their thoughts and feelings are being acknowledged without immediate judgment or unwarranted solutions. This doesn't just provide comfort; it fosters a deeper, more meaningful connection. Moreover, men feel that their words are valued and respected, which only reinforces the trust in the relationship, whether it’s romantic or platonic. The attentive ear of a compassionate listener is, without a doubt, a gift that continually strengthens bonds.
6. They Love That We Are Good at Expressing Ourselves
Women always know how to express their feelings and they always say what’s on their mind and most men admire this wonderful trait that most women possess. They even say that women often tend to take for granted how easily words come to them because for most men, expressing themselves can be a real challenge sometimes.
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Communication is a cornerstone in any healthy relationship, and men deeply appreciate a woman's readiness to discuss her emotions and thoughts. Their eloquent expression can pave the way for a deeper understanding and emotional intimacy that many men seek but find difficult to initiate. Women’s emotional literacy can also be a beacon, guiding men toward a more expressive version of themselves, something that doesn't always come naturally. This ease of communication is a subtle, yet powerful, aspect of a woman's allure, contributing to a more harmonious and connected relationship dynamic.
7. Men Love to Communicate through Actions More than Words
While women are good at expressing their feelings, men would rather communicate through actions rather than using words. Even though they know that words are important to women, they do prefer to express their feelings through actions.
Another surprising thing that you don’t know about men is that most of them actually enjoy romance, but they just doubt their skills to be romantic. They also love the fact that women are not afraid to cry, that we are maternal, that we love to spoon and that we always seem to know the right thing to say in every situation. Do you know any other things that men love more than most women realize? Please share your thoughts with us in the comments section!
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Isabella: @Spacegirl my man can't take it seriously and he's actually good at it when he tries - wish he could use his words more! I always appreciate the actions but it always melts my heart when he talks about it 😊
Hudaisa: Hudaisa11 add up 😀
Halo: I love this!
Nienke: I don t know where Things are. I m chaos. But he still loves me...lucky me
Happiness_Is: @Evelyn, vanilla is a really huge one. Lavender and Amber are also big ones. I'm pretty sure there's a post on here about what scents men like.
Maryamabbar: So truee❤️❤️❤️❤️
Arieanna: this doesn't go for all girls
Kellie: So true! The scent of a woman! My BF loves the way I smell. There's something about men and the scent of vanilla.
J: I'm sure they love how forgiving or (for lack of a better term) naive we can be
pearl: i don't know if my boyfriend still love his ex, he already tell me that he didn't love his ex anymore, but he need to be nice with his ex becouse he had a child with..... but still even he and i will be together living each other i still fell jealous and affraid that one time i wake up that he is with her ex gf again..... i don't want to be hurt....becouse i love him, i give up everything i have just for him even i know that he had a child to his ex gf, i accept it,,,, but still i feel hurt when i know that they going to see each other for thier child.....
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