Believe it or not, looks aren't everything. Men aren't as shallow as we think they are, which means they actually care about more than the size of our breasts and the look of our butts. Here are a few things that'll attract him more than a hot body will:
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1. A Genuine Smile
Any smile is beautiful when it's genuine. If a man is able to make you laugh, he's going to love the way you look when it happens.
2. Making a Move
It's sexy for a woman to make the first move. Men don't want to be stuck with that responsibility, so asking him out will make him find you hotter than ever.
3. Charity
A woman who actually uses her time to help out others in need is clearly a good person. So why wouldn't he be attracted to someone like this?
4. Confidence
Confidence is the sexiest trait a woman could have. That's why you should walk around with your back straight and your head held high. Flaunt what you've got.
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5. Sense of Humor
If you want to be happy together, you need to laugh together. The only way that'll happen is if he thinks you have a great sense of humor.
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6. Positivity
He doesn't want you to bring him down when he's in a good mood. He wants you to cheer him up when he's in a bad mood.
7. Independence
He wants to know that you'll be okay when he's not around., and independent girls are capable of taking care of themselves.
8. Down to Earth
Snobbiness is a major turn off. That's why being down to earth is a turn on. It's the complete opposite.
9. Open Mindedness
No one wants to be judged. If you have an open mind, then he won't be scared to tell you his deepest, darkest secrets.
10. A Good Fashion Sense
It doesn't matter what's underneath your clothing. As long as you wear outfits that make you feel amazing, he'll be happy to look at you all day long.
11. Passion
Passionate women are amazing in the bedroom. That should speak for itself.
12. Being a Social Butterfly
He wants you to get along with his friends and family members. That's why it's important that you're friendly and social.
13. Ambitiousness
No one wants to date someone who sits around on the couch all day. You need to have dreams and goals.
14. Generosity
In a healthy relationship, neither of you can be selfish. You need to give and take an equal amount.
15. Intelligence
He wants to be able to have stimulating conversations with you. That'll only happen if you're intelligent, which is why it's such a turn on.
16. Sweetness
You know how hard it is for us to find "a good guy?" Well, men think it's hard to find a good girl, which is why they appreciate sweetness so much.
17. Talent
Let him read a poem you've written or hear you sing a song you love. Once he sees how talented you are, he'll find you irresistible.
It doesn't matter if your skin looks flawless or your clothes are stylish, because there are other things that make a woman attractive. What do you find the most attractive about men, aside from their looks?
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Comments
jes: So much for feminism
Cassandra: Kindness, down to earth, takes care of himself 😍
Papayeus: Pretty much everything lol
Kylee: @kira the thing I liked about this article is that not only do men find the things attractive but it's good for the woman too. Everyone should feel confident in themselves and when you're confident you just feel so much better. I really enjoyed this article
Sarwa: The thing that attracts me most towards men is their caring attitude towards their families. Nothing wrong with this article except confidence needs to be more than just showing off ur assets.it should also include talking confidently and confident about expressing urself
Dee: I love men who are close to their family - a man that will do anything for his mum.. Not necessarily a mummy's boy but a guy who loves and looks after her.. They say, always look at the way a guy treats his mum because that's more than likely how he'll treat his partner/gf/wife..
Me12: Guys like bad bitches too x
Laura: ind of ironic how all the women in the gifs DO have hot bodies 😅 nice article 😊 :)
Kira: There are so many things listed here that shame women who aren't outgoing and confident. And why should these traits only be justified when a man deems them as attractive? #6 is especially worrisome because it's basically telling women that they aren't allowed to have bad days and that even if they are feeling like shit, they need to be there to encourage "their man" and make them feel better.
Bettina: Can someone explain "down to earth" to me I don't get it
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