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10 Things to Never Ever do when Flirting ...

By Holly

Flirting can appear creepy if you don't know what you're doing. That's why you have to be careful when you walk up to your crush and start talking to him. You don't want to end up pushing him away when you're actually trying to get him into bed with you. In order to avoid creeping him out, here are a few things that you should never ever do while flirting:

Table of contents:

  1. Stare for way too long
  2. Touch him inappropriately
  3. Bash another girl
  4. Acting like you’re someone you’re not
  5. Be mean to him
  6. Use pickup lines seriously
  7. Laugh at every single thing he says
  8. Flirt with his friends
  9. Social media creep
  10. Over use emojis

1 Stare for Way Too Long

Yes, eye contact is important when it comes to flirting. If you like a guy, then you should make sure to meet his gaze when you walk past one another. It'll draw his attention toward you. However, you don't want to take that piece of advice too far. If your glances turn into stares, then you're going to freak him out. No one likes to be ogled.

2 Touch Him Inappropriately

Touching him is a great way to flirt. Of course, those touches should be subtle, especially if you're still getting to know him. You should be casually touching him on his arm or on his shoulder in the middle of conversations. You shouldn't be slapping him on the rear or grabbing his junk for the fun of it. That's called sexual harassment.

3 Bash Another Girl

Complaining about how bitchy another girl is isn't going to make you look any better in his eyes. If anything, it's going to make you look unattractive. There's nothing sexy about bashing fellow women. It'll just make you look jealous, and jealousy isn't a very attractive trait.

4 Acting like You’re Someone You’re Not

Believe it or not, boys don't want you to like every single thing that they like. After all, opposites attract. So don't pretend to be someone you're not in the hopes of impressing him. It's going to backfire on you. If you want him to fall for you, then you have to act like yourself.

5 Be Mean to Him

When you were little, you might've pushed your crush on the playground. However, now that you're older, the same method isn't going to work. Sure, you can tease your crush, but if you're too mean to him, then he's going to assume that you hate him. That means he'll want nothing to do with you. That's why it's always better to compliment him than to criticize him.

6 Use Pickup Lines Seriously

Pickup lines are fun. If you're friends with a guy, then feel free to use them on him in a playful way. But you should never use a pickup line seriously. It just isn't going to work. It'll just make you look like you have no idea what you're doing when it comes to flirting.

7 Laugh at Every Single Thing He Says

There's nothing wrong with laughing at some of his jokes, even when they're not funny, in order to make him feel better about himself. But that doesn't mean that you should laugh at every single thing that ever comes out of his mouth. If you do that, then he'll stop putting in effort, because it'll be too easy to make you happy.

8 Flirt with His Friends

If you're interested in him, you should never flirt with his friends to make him jealous or make him notice you. It's promoting negative attention and no one in that circle will think highly of you or consider you girlfriend material if you're flirting with everyone. Not to mention, making him mad is not the way to win him over.

9 Social Media Creep

Sure, we all creep and it's fun, but don't like every single tweet, Facebook status, and photo add they have. And don't go liking pics from 52 weeks ago because you look desperate and weird.

10 Over Use Emojis

There's such thing as too many emojis, and when you overuse kissy faces or hearts you look immature and desperate. To be blunt, it's pathetic and unnecessary.

Now you'll be able to flirt with your crush without making a fool of yourself. What other things do you think women should stop doing when they're flirting?

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