7 Tips on Meeting Mr Right ...

By Natalie • Aug 31, 2014

From a young age, we are bombarded with tips on meeting Mr. Right, from watching princess movies to pages in magazines. But do we actually know what is right for us and how we actually are going to meet this man in our everyday life? Here are some tips on meeting Mr. Right, and not just Mr. Right Now.

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1. Don’t Be Looking for Him

This might sound like a cliché, but it is one of the tips on meeting Mr. Right that actually really, truly works! I find that when I am looking for a relationship, I never seem to find one. However, when I’m focusing on myself, a guy just happens to appear. When we start looking for a man, we become desperate and end up with someone that isn’t good for us and maybe even a guy we don’t actually want... and certainly not Mr. Right!

2. Be the Person That You Would Go out with

Be the person that you like, and other people will like you too. If you are happy that reflects, so people around you will be happy and then you will attract a happy Mr. Right. But if you are miserable, and not pleasant to be around, you will only find a miserable guy,if any.

3. What do You Want?

Make sure you know what you want in a man, and in your life in general. If you get into a relationship not knowing what you want, emotions and feelings will get involved and hurt. So at the beginning of a relationship don’t hide what you want; make it clear! You may be thinking that you don’t know what you want, so why not go on a few dates? See what it is that you like and what you don’t. It’s all about experimenting, whatever age you are!

4. You Might Not Be Right

Saying that, you might not know what it is that you want until you find it. Be open to adaptation, but don’t lose or change who you are in the process. Find someone who doesn’t want to change you, because then you will know that they really do love you.

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5. You Won’t Find Him in a Club

Many of my friends get caught up on guys that they meet in a club. The likelihood of you ending up with this guy is very slim. In a club generally guys are only after one thing, and it's not a long-term or serious relationship.

6. You Will Get Heartbroken

Don’t expect the first guy you meet to be the one. We all need to make mistakes in order to find out what it is we want. Even if you have found a guy, we all change as we get older. I know that ex-boyfriends that I have had would never fit into my life now. Everything happens for a reason.

7. But You Will Find Him

Even though there are many obstacles, you will find your Mr. Right. There are many people in the world, so why not get out there and see what you find? The next guy you meet might be Mr. Right!

As they say, patience is a virtue, and unfortunately Mr. Right isn’t going to just walk through the door into your life. So, have fun dating in the meantime and you may stumble across him. Or if you've already found him, how did you meet Mr. Right?

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  • Nikki

    2014-09-01T02:22:59.848Z

    "Be the person you want to go out with" makes so much sense to me
  • duje

    2014-08-31T22:20:40.534Z

    Found my mr right online :)
  • Sasa

    2014-09-01T18:06:31.362Z

    Sometimes I wonder if my ex husband was mr. Right... He was a good man... :(
  • Anonymous

    2014-08-31T17:59:29.646Z

    Point one is sooo true...Briiant article!!!!!
  • Kimberley

    2014-08-31T18:59:36.072Z

    Unfortunately, my mr right is called Ashton Irwin and belongs in a band called 5 Seconds Of Summer. Sucks, right? Well it's better than being caught up on teenage boys at school.
  • Annisa

    2014-09-01T09:29:50.325Z

    bit contradictory. First point says not to go looking and the last says to go find him...
  • Kora

    2014-09-01T19:57:03.965Z

    Completely agree. These were all my mentality when I met my hubby except...we met in the club. 😛 Our third anniversary is in two weeks.
  • Ginakenny

    2014-09-01T12:02:10.162Z

    I agree with Annisa point 1 and point 5 😘
  • Ayesha

    2014-08-31T18:19:36.639Z

    What if you did find him but lost him?
  • Aphrodite

    2014-09-15T04:38:05.720Z

    Ok.... Rule #1 you say don't go out looking for him Rule#2 you say got out and find him.... Hmmm lol..... But confusing!!
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