8 Useful Tips for Getting over a Relationship for Good ...

Getting over a relationship is by far one of the hardest things in the world to deal with. Not only do you have to handle all of the pain, but also the mood swings and also the fact that you have to put yourself back together. If you've recently parted ways from your boyfriend and are trying to get over a relationship, you should take a look at the below tips. I've got the top 8 ways of getting over a relationship for good.

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Don't Beg for Him to Come Back

It is definitely hard to deal with a relationship with has ended. It's also hard when you're getting over a relationship for good, but begging him to come back isn't going to work. It is going to be painful and what happens when he rejects you? It'll hurt even more! Don't beg your ex to come back, there are other ways to move past the relationship.

Cut All Communication

Believe me, I know that it sounds harsh in the beginning, but if you do cut all of the communication from your ex, it will be easier to get over the relationship for good. Delete his phone number out of your phone and even block him from your Facebook. Trust me, it'll be way easier once you can't see what he is posting.

Forgive Any and All Trust Issues

If one of the reasons that you broke up has to do with trust, maybe he cheated on you, maybe you just don't trust him at all, you need to let that go. By far, one of the worst things that you can do is to hang onto all of those trust issues. So ladies, one surefire way to get over a relationship for good is to really release and forgive a lot of the trust issues you have.

Focus on Yourself

When you are dealing with a breakup, one of the best ways to start the getting over a relationship phase is focusing in on yourself. This is a chance for you to truly reconnect with yourself. This is a chance for you to find out who you are again.

Seek Advice

If you are having a really, really difficult time trying to get over your relationship, you will need to seek some help. Seeking advice from your friends, family or even someone professional isn't abnormal ladies, it's actually a necessary process. Trust me, after my last breakup, I couldn't have made it through without my mom!

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Optimistically Look Forward

Being a pessimistic about your future and how things are going to go is never good. It can actually make you become negative in general and can even affect your personal life. If you've been dumped or done the dumping, be optimistic about your future, think of all of the good things that might surround the breakup.

Be Positive

It'll probably be really, really hard, but being positive – not just optimistic – but be positive. Trying to get over a relationship is never, ever easy, but if you are positive about it, who knows, maybe your positivity will attract Mr. Right!

Do Not Move on Too Quickly

Finally, ladies, even if Mr. Right comes along, make sure that you are very careful about the next relationship that you jump into. You don't want to move on too quickly, otherwise you could end up getting hurt again. You've give to give yourself time to heal.

Learning to get over a relationship is never easy, but it is possible. If you've been hurt and are trying to work out how you can go about getting over a relationship, these are some great tips. So ladies, what tips do you have for dealing with a breakup? Any that I didn't include?

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Best advice is to stop communication.. And also, no matter who was dumped, if he ever comes back later on down the road wanting you back, don't give in. You (or him) made the decision to ends things and the best way to heal those wounds is to not open them up again. Because if he dumped you, and you take him back, he will absolutely hurt you again because you made the mistake of allowing him to.

So, there is this guy that I've liked for about a year now. We have gone to school together from my kindergarten year to my 6th grade year (in his case from his 2nd grade year to his 8th grade year). I'm in 7th grade now, and in 6th grade we were pretty close. We used to txt a lot, and now very rarely do we talk, and see each other. In the beginning of 7th grade he was actually texting me, and I would of course reply. Now though, nothing, nonia! How do I start talking to him again, and making him notice, and think about me? I just don't know...

I broke up with my ex almost 2 years ago, but I really wanted to stay friends with him. At first it was heaps awkward but then I was closer to him then i ever was when I dated him, I had no attraction physically to him which took a lot of the pressure off. But the other day he told me I was the most beautiful girl he had ever known and that he still loved me, after two years he had never stopped. Now I'm so confused because I let him down easy because I don't want to date him, I just feel like though every time we talk its just him trying to convince me to be with him. I really don't want to lose our friendship but I know that we just need a break from talking. Arrrrgh boys are so confusing!!!!

Thank you for replying to my comment! I really needed some advice. I will have to try these things out, and let you know what happens. :]

My ex and I were serious for a while and had a nasty break-up. Once it ended he was quick to delete all connections to me except for one, my best friend. He talks to her a lot, they became friends after we started dating & because my friend really likes getting on her friends boyfriends good side (so incase it ever turns into marriage she can help with proposals xP). My problem is that it really bugs me how much they talk, what she says to him, and how he gets to see a lot of my life through her. I did a horrible thing and read one of their conversations (Horrible thing to do to a best friend, I know, but we worked it out.) and I was mentioned a lot. Just in her everyday life she'd point out things that were happening and because we are together so often, she doesn't really leave me out of it. I've asked her to not mention me to him, that it really bugs me that he still knows what's going on in my life (It was an emotionally abusive relationship, which she knows. He tracked my computer so he'd know who I was emailing, what sites I visited, who was talking to me, ect. So it really bugs me when he has information about me to this day.) and I don't want this to have an effect on my friend and I. I've flat out talked to her about it, telling her how it really bugs me and makes me really uncomfortable. I don't want to be that girl, the one going 'omg we broke up, you can't talk to him!' but I can't see how she could still talk to him after everything that went down. I feel like an awful friend for even letting this bug me, but I can't ignore the fact that it does. Any advice?

I just recently broke up with my boyfriend, we've been together for a little over a year. Right after the break up he texts me all day. He says he will wait for me in the future and that maybe my feelings will change. His mind is set on us being together forever, we Hang out with the same friends so we decided that we can hangout with them together but as friends, is this a bad idea? I'm trying to move on but I'm not sure what to do?

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