Getting over a relationship is by far one of the hardest things in the world to deal with. Not only do you have to handle all of the pain, but also the mood swings and also the fact that you have to put yourself back together. If you've recently parted ways from your boyfriend and are trying to get over a relationship, you should take a look at the below tips. I've got the top 8 ways of getting over a relationship for good.
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1. Don't Beg for Him to Come Back
It is definitely hard to deal with a relationship with has ended. It's also hard when you're getting over a relationship for good, but begging him to come back isn't going to work. It is going to be painful and what happens when he rejects you? It'll hurt even more! Don't beg your ex to come back, there are other ways to move past the relationship.
2. Cut All Communication
Believe me, I know that it sounds harsh in the beginning, but if you do cut all of the communication from your ex, it will be easier to get over the relationship for good. Delete his phone number out of your phone and even block him from your Facebook. Trust me, it'll be way easier once you can't see what he is posting.
3. Forgive Any and All Trust Issues
If one of the reasons that you broke up has to do with trust, maybe he cheated on you, maybe you just don't trust him at all, you need to let that go. By far, one of the worst things that you can do is to hang onto all of those trust issues. So ladies, one surefire way to get over a relationship for good is to really release and forgive a lot of the trust issues you have.
4. Focus on Yourself
When you are dealing with a breakup, one of the best ways to start the getting over a relationship phase is focusing in on yourself. This is a chance for you to truly reconnect with yourself. This is a chance for you to find out who you are again.
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5. Seek Advice
If you are having a really, really difficult time trying to get over your relationship, you will need to seek some help. Seeking advice from your friends, family or even someone professional isn't abnormal ladies, it's actually a necessary process. Trust me, after my last breakup, I couldn't have made it through without my mom!
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6. Optimistically Look Forward
Being a pessimistic about your future and how things are going to go is never good. It can actually make you become negative in general and can even affect your personal life. If you've been dumped or done the dumping, be optimistic about your future, think of all of the good things that might surround the breakup.
7. Be Positive
It'll probably be really, really hard, but being positive – not just optimistic – but be positive. Trying to get over a relationship is never, ever easy, but if you are positive about it, who knows, maybe your positivity will attract Mr. Right!
8. Do Not Move on Too Quickly
Finally, ladies, even if Mr. Right comes along, make sure that you are very careful about the next relationship that you jump into. You don't want to move on too quickly, otherwise you could end up getting hurt again. You've give to give yourself time to heal.
Learning to get over a relationship is never easy, but it is possible. If you've been hurt and are trying to work out how you can go about getting over a relationship, these are some great tips. So ladies, what tips do you have for dealing with a breakup? Any that I didn't include?
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Samantha: If I'm still not over him for six months, then what? The only things I've been seeing in other men are things I miss in my ex. I can't get over him.
Brittany: I was just dumped about a week ago. And it is absolutely horrible. I can't not see him because we go to the same college and have the same friends. I want to try to talk to him but I know I'll get rejected. This sucks
Alex: So there is this guy that i have liked for a little while. he told me when i first met him that he was trying to get over another girl. We met through a mutual friend and have never met in person, but we text constantly. So far we have soooo much in common. We are both very athletic, but a little nerdy. We text non-stop all the time, but we are both soooo busy to ever hangout. Now all of a sudden we haven't been texting or making plans. I don't know what to do because i think him and the old girl have been reconnecting and i have been reconecting with my ex, but i want to be with him. please help me!!
Anonymous: Best advice is to stop communication.. And also, no matter who was dumped, if he ever comes back later on down the road wanting you back, don't give in. You (or him) made the decision to ends things and the best way to heal those wounds is to not open them up again. Because if he dumped you, and you take him back, he will absolutely hurt you again because you made the mistake of allowing him to.
Kendall: So, there is this guy that I've liked for about a year now. We have gone to school together from my kindergarten year to my 6th grade year (in his case from his 2nd grade year to his 8th grade year). I'm in 7th grade now, and in 6th grade we were pretty close. We used to txt a lot, and now very rarely do we talk, and see each other. In the beginning of 7th grade he was actually texting me, and I would of course reply. Now though, nothing, nonia! How do I start talking to him again, and making him notice, and think about me? I just don't know...
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