7 Ways to Keep the Spark Going between You and Your Partner ...

By Alicia

Sometimes after you have been together for a long time, you need to look for ways to keep the spark going between you and your partner. You can’t just let your relationship be. It isn’t going to thrive if you don’t put effort into it to keep it thriving. Let’s talk about some ways to keep the spark going and keep your relationship strong.

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1. Enjoy Memories Together

You know, there is something very special about talking about when you first met and first started dating. All of those first feelings you had come flooding back. You remember the butterflies you used to get when you saw each other. You remember all those sweet getting to know you moments. Bringing those memories back to the forefront of your minds is one of the great ways to keep the spark going.

2. Recreate Your First Date

Along the same lines is this idea. Recreate your first date. It is fun to go back and go to the places you went the first time you went out. It brings back a lot of memories that help the spark to keep going between the two of you. Try it and see what you think.

3. Go on a Second Honeymoon

If you are married, go on a second honeymoon. You can go back to the place you went on your first honeymoon or go to an entirely new place altogether. If you aren’t married yet, you can still enjoy a romantic trip together. The point is that you get away from all of the distractions of life just to focus on your relationship and each other. This reignites the spark in so many ways.

4. Learn the Art of Flirting All over Again

Flirting is something that shouldn’t only be limited to before you start dating. It should go with you through the whole length of your relationship. You should even flirt after decades and decades of marriage. Do you know why? It keeps the spark going. Plus, flirting is just fun.

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. Smile Your Beautiful Smile

You can say and do so much with body language, did you know that? A simple smile at your man and sparks can immediately fly. Use body language to your advantage. Wink at him. Lean in toward him when he talks. All of these little things work in your favor.

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6. Dress the Way He Likes

If you know that your guy prefers you in a certain color or a certain article of clothing, why not wear it for him? Maybe he loves it when you wear dresses or he may prefer you in jeans. Whatever he likes, go for it when you want to give the spark a boost. Just a little side note for you here, too: red is a color that has been proven to draw men to you. See what it does for your relationship.

7. Invest in Your Relationship

You know, you cannot expect the spark to keep going between you if you don’t invest in your relationship. A relationship needs attention. You cannot expect it to just keep going as it is without that. Treasure your relationship and nurture it. This is the key to not only keeping the spark alive but having a good relationship overall.

It can seem challenging but there are ways to keep the spark alive between the two of you. What do you do to keep the spark going in your relationship? We can all use more inspiration!

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Ive been trynna make these things but hes not commiting to it

Good advises, I've been married for about two years, definitely going to try that to keep the spark

Sometimes it's easier said than done x

Lesly how are you

I'm going to try

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