One night stands. Most of us have had them, and I don’t see them as anything to be ashamed of at all! It’s nice to let your hair down and have some no strings attached fun once in a while, but what about those times when you really click with the guy and end up wanting more than just that one evening of passion? Here are some ways to make him want after a one night stand.
The most important thing to do is to make sure you do is blow his mind in bed! Men are simple creatures so if they have the best sex of their lives, they aren’t going to want to give it up easily! Absolutely rock his world under the sheets and there is no way that he is going to want to call it a day after one solitary encounter.
To ensure you're unforgettable, focus on his pleasure as much as your own. Be adventurous and open to trying new things that could heighten the experience for both of you. Taking the lead can be especially enticing, as can expressing your enjoyment vocally and physically. It's all about making the connection intense and memorable. Remember, confidence is key; show him you're comfortable in your skin and in the bedroom, and he'll be thinking about round two before the first is even over.
Sex is a big part of it, but it will also help if you can be interesting and engaging outside of the bedroom too! Make jokes, ask him questions about his hobbies, make him feel like he really has a connection with you that he wants to explore on a different day, meaning another date!
Remember, building a connection goes beyond the physical. Show him your wit, share funny anecdotes from your life, and engage with his stories. Everyone loves feeling understood, so actively listen when he talks about his interests. Whether it's his passion for vintage cars or his obsession with the latest tech gadgets, showing genuine curiosity can be incredibly attractive. Laugh together, and let the warmth of your personality shine through. This way, he'll start associating you with good feelings and stimulating conversation, increasing the likelihood of him yearning for more than just a physical connection.
Try not to take complete control of the date and the one night stand, because most guys don’t like to feel like that are just being pushed around and being made to do things that they don’t want to do. Build a rapport and take turns being the dominant one, both in conversation and in bed!
Don’t adopt a sort of femme fatale persona. It might be sexy in the moment but if he doesn’t feel like he is being treated well and kindly, he won’t be interested in seeing you again after this one night. It’s always better to just be yourself!
Take a little bit of time between your one night stand activities to talk about your values and core beliefs. If you hit on some important common ground, then it will build a connection between the two of you that he would be stupid not to want to explore further.
Don’t be afraid to text him after the initial one night stand. Send a quick message to say how much you enjoyed yourself. You never know, he might have been waiting for you to get in touch before thinking about making a move!