What do πŸ€” Men πŸ§” Want πŸ‘in a Woman πŸ‘©?

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What do men want in a woman? It is one of the many questions that have plagued women for years, and usually, women feel as though they already have us figured out. Interestingly, both females and males ultimately want to be heard. Conversation consists of 2 parts: the talker and the listener. The important thing is to listen so you learn. The golden rule of a healthy relationship is communication. So what do men want in a woman?

After being married twice (the 2nd one is my current) I learned how to be open and have encouraged my wife to do the same. I have never had a healthier relationship in my 33 years of existence. I have had conversations with women and they all tell me the things that β€œmen want”, and after listening to them, they never tend to care to pay attention to what my rebuttal is to their comments. This makes me ask how can you know or understand something without gaining knowledge from the source? We both, at times, wish for the other person to just listen. Everyone wants to be heard. Even when people are talking the listener is already thinking of their own thoughts.

1. Confidence

The answer is simple! Men want a woman who is confident, flexible, and present. Ask yourself how many times you considered changing for a guy and it ended in turmoil. Women have done things to change their physical appearance, their emotions, their interests, etc. to please a man.

The days of a woman being second class to men died centuries ago. It is the difference between being confident vs. bitchy. I look to my wife to make decisions in our relationship with an understanding of knowing me and what’s best for us. Nobody wants a push-over or even a person who’s so strong-minded that it borders on disrespect. Confidence is not just about showing a person that you believe in yourself, but being confident is also about allowing your partner to lead at times. Understand that in choosing your next relationship, whatever variation it is, it means that you have made a confident conscious decision to pick the right person to pursue and grow with.

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Shannon Fox
This was a very helpful article!
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