How to Deal when Your Man is Ignoring You 🤐 ...

By Melissa • Oct 27, 2017 MD

No one likes to be ignored. The feeling is even worse when it comes from someone you love or care deeply about. Unfortunately, it’s not uncommon for women to feel ignored by their men. What are you to do if your man isn’t giving you the attention you need and deserve? Here are some helpful tips on how to handle when your man ignores you.

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1. Talk to Him

Of course, this is easier said than done, right? How do you talk to someone that is ignoring you? But wait until you have his attention and let him know how his behavior is making you feel. Don’t accuse him of anything, just be honest about your feelings.

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2. Ask if You Can Help

Maybe there is something going on with your man that you really aren’t aware of. Maybe he is upset by something or is having some sort of problem at work that he is trying to process. Whatever the case is, speak to him and show your sincere concern for his behavior and offer your help and support.

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3. Back off

Sometimes men just need a moment alone. If that’s the case then let your man know you are here for him, but right now you are going to give him some space. Tell him to call you or come get you when he is ready for your company.

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4. Don’t Jump to Conclusions

Just because you aren’t getting through to him doesn’t mean he is out doing wrong. If you’ve not known him to cheat in the past then give him the benefit of the doubt for now, but keep your eyes open for more questionable behavior or lies.

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5. Give Him an out

Unfortunately, your man may be ignoring you because he just isn’t interested anymore and he is avoiding hurting your feelings. I know it sucks, but if someone doesn’t want to be with you then staying together isn’t the right thing. If he won’t say it, maybe it’s time you say it.

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6. Make Other Plans

So your man wants to stay in alone and be a grump, that doesn’t mean you have to stay in with him and stare at a wall together. Get your girls together and have a little night out with your besties. You deserve some fun.

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7. Give Him Time

If you man really is processing some sort of internal emotions then you are just going to have to give him time. Show your support and concern, but avoid smothering him. Remind him that you care and you're there whenever he wants to talk but try to not push the issue. In the meantime, find something else to occupy your time.

Being ignored stinks. I am sure we can all agree on that. While our men may ignore us for many reasons, we can’t always assume the worst. Give it time and feel him out before you start thinking he is cheating or ready to break up. How do you handle things when your man ignores you?

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  • Anamazingmesss

    2015-09-21T21:27:48.692Z

    I cry to my friends & I over think. ALWAYS
  • cara

    2016-10-27T15:10:13.557Z

    Men always complain about women saying 'I'm fine' when something is wrong or has upset them and they don't like hints yet they seem to think it's ok to do this to women, communication works both ways, if you want a bit of space just say, Be a grownup!
  • Samira

    2016-10-28T00:50:32.815Z

    Whoah women :) chill ! (All said in respect !) I will return with a good comment later on since it's way too late here in old dk. Goodnight
  • Rose

    2015-09-21T07:15:09.899Z

    @kubi lol
  • Brimom

    2015-09-19T08:58:48.852Z

    Would definitely like some input as to what I should do.... leave him alone, call him... Just want a simple answer to his vanishing so that I can get in with my life and stop blaming my self.
  • peony

    2015-09-19T11:38:10.712Z

    @Brimom well I just @ritchie v since he made clear that he is a man but no joy so maybe men don't have a clue either...
  • Katrina

    2015-09-18T11:51:52.528Z

    I'm going through the same thing right now. Some of the suggestions work, but sometimes my man just won't budge
  • Ritchie

    2015-09-18T21:22:23.531Z

    Im a man, start bashin rather than growing and trying to understand why we are like that.
  • DivaLilacs

    2016-10-28T04:26:40.226Z

    Yea, am experiencing such right now Infact!!! So I have decided to give him a break, not fun because I miss him tho
  • Brimom

    2015-09-19T08:51:11.677Z

    Just had a man ghost me. I'm heartbroken. In past disagreements ... we always would discuss our feelings. Why can't he say to me what he is feeling. I would rather know than to keep blaming myself as I am right now:( Tried to message him and though he will open everyone, he will not reply. Don't know what to do almost a month of no communication is killing me. Just want a reason....
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