17 All Too Real ✌🏼 Truths about Breaking up 💔 No One Ever Talks about 🙊 ...

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Breakups are tough.

Everyone tells you that there are other fish in the sea, you're better off, and you should just get over it, but it's not that easy.

Every breakup is different, every reason is different, but there are lots of similarities, too.

The pain, the regret, the hope – those are usually the same.

It's just that nobody ever tells you the full truth about breakups.

1. Typically, the Love Doesn't Just Disappear

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You can't just turn it on and off like a light switch, even if your ex was horrible and your breakup was messy.

2. And It's Possible to Love Someone and Hate Them at the Same Time

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You'll probably feel a whole big mix of things after your breakup, in fact.

3. Certain Songs, Movies, and Books Will Hurt You Too Much for a While

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It might be a while before you can listen to certain songs, watch certain things, and go to places that remind you of your ex.

4. Sometimes Venting Your Vitriol Really is the Only Way to Feel Better

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Everybody always tells you to rise above it, and you might resist the temptation, but it's understandable if you don't.

5. You Might Want to Get Back with Your Ex … a Lot

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If you really think it's a possibility, you might want to surround yourself with friends and family for a while, so you don't send any texts or make any calls you'll regret.

6. You Might Even Be Willing to Put Yourself in Some Really Painful Situations

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For example, you might force a friendship with your ex just to keep them in your life, even though it hurts.

7. It's Possible You'll Insta Stalk Your Ex without Even Really Wanting to

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Facebook and Twitter, too – the urge to see what they're up to and how they're dealing is just too much sometimes.

You'll do Your Fair Share of Wallowing, and That's Okay
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