On a hot summer day, there are plenty of ways to get a guy's attention on the beach. It's fun to feel the sand on your feet and the sun on your back, but there are more things to admire than the beautiful scenery. Hot men with abs won't mind when you stare. If you want the eye candy to turn into your boyfriend, here are some simple ways to get a guy's attention on the beach:
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1. Show Your Playful Side
Even though it's hot, you don't have to sit around. Use your energy to play a game of catch or throw around a Frisbee. Men love competition, so they might ask to join in on the game. It's one of the easiest ways to get a guy's attention on the beach, so make sure you always pack a toy in your beach bag.
2. Meet His Gaze
Flirting on the beach isn't any different from flirting at school, or at the store, or at a concert. Although it's tempting to stare at a guy's abs, make sure you look into his eyes. It'll show him that you're interested, and help give him the confidence to walk over to you. Don't forget to show him that sexy smile!
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Oh, it's actually easier than you might think! Just be casual. You can talk about the weather, ask if he knows a good spot for swimming, or even compliment his surfboard or beach gear.
Confidence is key! Wear something you feel good in, maybe a cute swimsuit or a fun hat. Playing beach games like volleyball or frisbee can also help you stand out in a fun way.
Look for signs like him glancing your way, smiling, or even trying to initiate a conversation. If he finds a way to be near you or includes you in a group activity, he's probably interested!
Totally up to you! If you feel confident, make the first move—it can be as simple as saying hi or asking if he wants to join your game. Sometimes, guys appreciate a girl who takes the initiative.
That's awesome! If he wants to spend more time with you at the beach, it's a great sign he's interested. Just relax, have fun, and see where things go. Enjoy the sun and surf together!
3. Appeal to His Taste
What's more exciting than finding someone with the same taste in music? Bring a stereo along with you to play some of your best tunes. If your dream man walks past, he'll hear his favorite band playing, and start talking to you.
4. Mingle at a Hot Spot
If you're at a beach with a food stand or bar, head over there to mingle. There's bound to be a bunch of other beach goers around to chat with. It'll be easy to start up a conversation, because you can ask them what drink or snack they think is the best. If that doesn't work, you can simply compliment them on their bathing suit or new tan.
5. Ask for His Assistance
If you're lucky, someone will stroll over to you while you're tanning to get your number. However, you can be in control of what guy you talk to by asking one to help you apply your sunscreen. If he turns you down, ask someone else. There are plenty of options, so don't give up after one rejection.
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One of the best ways to get a guy's attention on the beach is to ask for his assistance. This could be help with applying sunscreen, carrying beach supplies, or getting a drink. It's a great way to start a conversation and let him know you're interested. Plus, it shows that you are confident and not afraid to ask for help. If he turns you down, just politely move on to the next guy. There are plenty of options, so don't get discouraged. With the right attitude and confidence, you can easily get a guy's attention on the beach.
6. Get out in the Ocean
Instead of sitting side by side with the hotties, you can strut your stuff in front of them by entering the ocean. They'll get a better view of you from their seats in the sand. Plus, there will be other good looking guys in the ocean with you. When you're out there together, it'll be tempting to start a conversation, so why not do so?
7. Quench His Thirst
Men always say that their heart can be won through their stomach. If you have a cooler full of food or drinks, ask a nearby cutie if he wants a bite. He won't turn the offer down, and it'll get you two talking.
The beach is a fun place to meet new people, because everyone's there to have a great time. If men don't approach you, remember that you can always approach them. Trust me, they won't mind! What's your favorite thing about the beach?
Comments
CrazyGirl: what do you guys mean???
Ayra: Stupid article
sassy-girl: i already know this :) thanks
Maria-Victoria: I agree with Courtney. Just re-read the article and there is no mention of race. Relax ladies!!
Minnie: I'm African American woman and I go to the Beach
Courtney: I don't see anything in the article that just applied to white people..... I'm not really seeing anything to be upset about....
Cupcake: ya I mean there's other races like come on
Luxy: Not everyone here is white.......
Virtuouswoman69: I agree. I am a Black Woman & I think the author could have eliminated the use of the tanning scenario. I understand that being of African descent we have what we need in our skin already so to mention suntan lotion & tanning really just low key cancelled out every body else with dark pigment.
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