9 Ways to Be the Best Girlfriend He's Ever Had ...

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As with athletes, only the greats go down in history; when it comes to your man, there are ways to be the best girlfriend he’s ever had. Be you a rookie or seasoned lean, mean, 30-something dating machine, understand one thing: finding your girlfriend style and channeling your inner goddess will set you apart from the rest of the pack. Okay, I know that was overkill. However, there are ways to be the best girlfriend he’s had that apply to every personality type.

1. Say What You Mean

This is not to be confused with being blunt, for I know that a lot of women panic at the idea of confronting a problem without any form of sugar coating. There are however, ways to say exactly what you mean in a nonthreatening manner. As most therapists advise, try using "I feel…when you" statements when you can. They aren’t accusatory and they get your point across. And if he asks you how you’re doing, don’t say fine unless you are just that. I officially declare you too old for mind games, no matter how old you are. Saying what you mean is one of the easiest, emotionally freeing ways to be the best girlfriend he’s ever had.

HuMAN

Comments:

princess jadets
@Dianeg, i read that book the 5 love language is one of the best book...i really like it..
Cartèlea
Not argue and be an obsessive bitch ..
Shae23
I'm really on the fence with this post...being a woman is about being true to yourself no matter if you are in a relationship or not. When in a relationship always be true. If you begin doing things t...
lilhez
Porn is ok for a relationship ? Ok of course this is the American Society. I will never trust the person who posts this. Sorry but I want a guy who not only respects me but himself. I would rather be selfish and not compete with porn.
Samantha
I'm so stealing the beer mug one from you because my girl loves to drink her beer...:) Haha...
Caro
Love these tips! I agree 100% and do most. Thanks!
llaurajn
if he dosnt accept u for who u are then get rid!! he should make an effort to
Karen
My man loves when I make him grilled cheese and make him iced tea. To him that's good enough
Aliza
Love it :)
karen
I have read the five love languages it's a brilliant book , wish I had read it years ago :-)
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