There are tons of ways on how to be more approachable to guys, you've just got to learn the ins and outs of it! Ladies, I've got the top 9 ways on how to be more approachable to guys to make sure that you land yourself a great guy and guys want to approach you! So ladies, are you ready to learn all of the ways on how to be more approachable to guys?
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1. Smile
You'd be surprised just how much a smile can lighten up your entire face and how you can actually draw a guy in with your smile. Just smiling is absolutely one of the ways on how to be more approachable to guys! So ladies, flash those pearly whites at the next guy that starts to eye you!
2. Be Nice
Being nice is something that goes a very, very long way. Most girls think that being nice is a little overrated, but ladies, one of the keys on how to be more approachable to guys is just being nice to them. Treating them exactly how you want to be treated!
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3. Be Confident
I know that building confidence is really, really difficult, but if you could just push the envelope a little bit, if you could draw up all of your confidence every time you go out, you'll see just how much of a difference it makes! Being confident is one of the keys to learning how to be more approachable to guys, after all, they love confidence!
4. Show Your Personality
It's difficult right up front to show your personality, but it's also one of the ways on how to be more approachable to guys. Just show that you're a little crazy, that you're a little nutty, that you are sweet and kind and your crush will surely go for you – or at least that guy eyeing you at the bar will!
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This is an important step in making yourself more approachable to guys. It's important to show your personality and be confident in who you are. Showing your sense of humour, being kind and friendly, and being a bit spontaneous can help you stand out and make a good impression. Additionally, good body language and eye contact can go a long way in showing your personality. Finally, smiling and having a positive attitude can make you even more attractive and approachable to guys.
5. Dress Sexy, Not Slutty
The key to confidence is all tied up in how you dress. If you don't feel pretty, you aren't going to be completely confident in how you act. So ladies, find something that is sexy but not slutty, something that will make you feel completely confident and beautiful at the same time! This will absolutely make you more approachable to guys!
6. Flirt
Did the guy finally approach you that you've been eyeing? Flirt it up ladies! Flirting will not only make you feel more confident, but it can also ensure that the guy that approached you knows that you like him.
7. Good Body Language
One of the easy ways on how to be more approachable to guys is by having really good body language! This means that you have good posture, keep up the flirty little gazes and even give some coy little smiles. It'll make the guy you've been trying to catch the eye of all night really want to approach you!
8. Shoulders Back
Remember what I said about the body language? The same goes for how you stand. Ladies, keep your shoulders back, stand up straight – it's all about how you carry yourself that'll make those guys notice you and approach you!
9. Accept Compliments
Finally, even if you aren't exactly the type of girl that has confidence in herself, you need to learn how to accept compliments. Guys hate when they tell a girl that they are pretty and then the girl is disagreeing with them.
There you go ladies, all of the ways on how to be more approachable to guys! So the next time you're at a bar, why not utilize some of these tips on how to be more approachable to guys and see how well they work! What other tips and tricks do you have on how to be more approachable to guys?
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Maya: @David it's okay. It didn't show up on Facebook THANK GOD. But season starts again in November.
Maya: @Heather PLEASEEEEE help!
Maya: I'm fourteen and I really like this guy who I play tennis with. We're born only three days apart, and he's the sweetest guy like ever. Well maybe not ever but pretty high up there!:) when I first saw him, I thought, "Hey he's cute!:)" and then we became friends and we talk quite a lot at practice. There was this one time when we were doing a relay race and I slipped after I won. Everyone else was turned around and they didn't see me but then he turned his head and saw me, and he gave me his hand to help me up. There was also this one day when Max and I were on the same team for relay racing and he was like "Maya will go anchor" and I'm the fastest girl at practice, but he was on the team and he was faster than me by a bit, so I said, "Me? Why don't you go anchor?, you're faster than me:)" and he was like, "You beat me last time!" and I said, "No, I didn't. I have never ever beaten you." and then he smiled with his teeth, and looked down into my eyes and I was like, "HOLY OH MY JESUS." (but I didn't say that out loud! Haha!:) and then he said, "Well you beat me to the net post:)" and I just didn't argue anymore. So I just smiled. Then he said, "Okay guys, Maya's going first" and so I ran and Then the next people went, but it was maddy's turn and max was like, "Maddy, you better not drop the ball. I swear I will ugh..." and he was kidding, he wasn't being mean, and I totally adore Maddy she's so amazing!:) but then I said, "Don't pressure her!:)" and then it was almost his turn and he said to me, "Haha, now watch me drop it..." like telling Maddy not to drop with was a jinx. But then I laughed. Later on, I challenged him, and we were both hitting horrible shots and he served me a ball and it just hit my racket and went over the fence an hit this car. Keep in mind, that this is the Beverly Hills Tennis Center. So I covered my mouth and gasped and he was laughing and he was like, "Hey Maya, you got new strings?" And I said, "No, I just kinda left my racket at home so I'm using my sister's. So I guess she got new strings:)" and he started laughing and I just smiled because he was smiling and that made me happy. So in the end, I won. Then later he challenged me back, and I was coming down the stairs and he was waiting for me on the court and he was like, "MAYAAAA. Come on let's go" and then I said, "I'm coming! We have a whole other hour!:)" and then he said, "But I want to play!" and when I finally got to the court, I closed the door/gate thingy:) and I just looked at him, like that "I'm here now, happy?" face and he started laughing, and he smiled again, and then he won. And when we were back on court with everyone else, I did this total fangirling move and he was like, "This was Maya just a second ago:" then he like imitated me, and i was like, "That was a horrible imitation." and he was like, "That was an amazing imitation." My friends were like, "he totally likes you" but I don't want to get my hopes up. So anyways, many other days like this or better happened, but you he the picture. I like him a BUNCH. But I said all of this to say, do you think he likes me? Should I tell him I like him? I REALLY dont want to ruin our friendship if he weren't to like me.
Maya: Oh my goodness this is like all over Facebook. Pleaseeee help me delete this...
David: Well, Maya. Since you said it was all over Facebook, how's it turning out? Sometimes a simple twist of fate can be what was needed to get things going, or stop it in its tracks. Welcome to the dating world. Either way, I hope it turned out well for you, but if it didn't, than don't give up. It's a long process to weed out all those fish in this sea and it helps you fine tune your flirting and dating skills. It also helps you figure out what kind of person you are and the kind of person you want to be with.
jesslyn: this is kinda stating the obvious
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