17 Ways to Stay Sexy during a Dry Spell ...

1. Treat Yourself to Some New Toys!

Just because you’re not having sex, it doesn’t mean that you can’t feel maximum pleasure! Head to your nearest adult shop and pick up a couple of new toys to spice things up for your personal times!

2. Become Reacquainted with Your Own Hands

With a plethora of toys (and previous partners) to keep you happy, it can be easy to forget that you can do wonders for yourself with your own hands! Get back to basics and rediscover that side of yourself.

3. Delve into Some Erotic Fiction

We all know about Fifty Shades, but the world of erotic literature is so much more than just that one book. Don’t be afraid to explore the kinds of stories being told. They will definitely titillate!

4. Write down Your Wildest Fantasies

You don’t have to be talented writer. Just buy a nice journal and use it to document all of your sexiest fantasies; it can be really enlightening and fun to see them written out.

5. Wear Your Sexiest Underwear

You shouldn’t only wear your very sexiest underwear when you are trying to impress a man. It should be something that you wear when you want to feel empowered and sexy in yourself.

6. Or, Alternatively, Wear No Underwear at All!

There is something effortlessly sexy and risqué about going commando in your everyday life. It’s like you have a fun secret that nobody else around you knows. You have all the power!

7. Listen to Sexy Music

There is nothing like a strong gravelly voice to get you in the mood, or, of course, you can go classic soul with a little bit of Marvin Gaye’s Let’s Get It On. It works a treat every single time!

8. Have a Glass of Champagne before Bed

There is something about the elegance of champagne and the way that the bubbles cascade down your throat just before you go to bed that is really indulgent and sexy.

9. Get a Secret Piercing!

Whether it’s your tongue, belly button or even a nipple, there is something really sexy about a hidden piercing that only you know about, and those who are lucky enough to see you intimately in the future, once this dry spell ends.

10. Wear a Lot of the Color Red

It might seem silly but there is some actual science behind the color red and all of the sexy connotations that is historically linked with. Wear more of the color and see if your attitude starts to change.

11. Go Braless if You Are Lucky Enough to Be Able to!

For some women, going braless just isn’t an option due to large, heavy breasts, but if you have the opportunity to do so, it can be really freeing and liberating.

12. Eat Extravagant Foods like Oysters

Not only are oysters a well-known aphrodisiac, but there is something about the luxurious nature of the foods itself that can make you feel great and give you a boost of confidence. Don’t like oysters? Stir some lobster into your mac ‘n cheese.

13. Buy Some Expensive Bedding and Sheets

You love your body, so treat it to the very best by investing in some top quality sheets. There is nothing better than the feeling of a high thread count on your tired skin!

14. Swap Tights to Thigh Highs

There is something inherently sexy about thigh highs, and the best part is that if you want, you can be the only person who knows that you are wearing the much sexier alternative under your skirt.

15. Take a Hot Steamy Bubble Bath

There is nothing quite a therapeutic as a long, luxurious bubble bath. Go all out with mood lighting and some soft music, you will feel absolutely fantastic afterwards!

16. Invest in Some Sexy Pajamas

Your old college sweatshirt just isn’t going to cut it. Silk is the word here. Treat yourself to some super sexy pajamas and you will feel a real self-confidence before bedtime.

17. Go for a Session of Acupuncture

Try something different. Acupuncture can be a really helpful thing for rediscovering your sexy self. The release of pressure in certain muscles and body parts can really help you to unwind.

Some of these may seem simple or even not worth the effort but the whole point is to just do things to make yourself feel better. Don’t talk down to yourself during this period. Pamper yourself and love yourself more.