If talking to your crush in person isn’t enough, there are flirty ways to give him your phone number. Some of them require you to be brave, while others can be done casually. Whether you’re shy or bold, you can use one of these ways to give him your phone number:
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1. Lend a Helping Hand
You don’t have to be obvious about your feelings for him when giving him your number. If you see him struggling with his math homework, tell him to give you a call if he needs your help. You’re just being nice, so he can’t judge you for it. If you’re not afraid to be flirty, you can playfully tell him to call you if he needs help picking out a tie that goes with his gorgeous eyes. You can spice up the conversation any way you want, but it's one of the ways to give him your phone number that can seem casual.
2. On That Note
If you’re super shy, you can leave a note on his desk with your number on it. Just make sure that you write your name or an inside joke on it, so that he knows it’s from you. If you’re bold, you can slip the note right into his pocket while giving him a flirty smile.
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Ensure that your note has a touch of personal flair—whether it's a cute doodle or a spritz of your favorite perfume. This little personalization can turn a simple message into something special and memorable. Just be cautious not to be too invasive of his personal space or to make him uncomfortable. The key is to keep the encounter light-hearted and casual, which will make the possibility of a future conversation all the more exciting for him.
3. Old School Sweethearts
In old movies, a girl takes a guy’s hand and writes her number on it with a pen. Now that we have phones, that rarely happens, but it’s a cute idea. Just make sure that the numbers are visible. You don’t want them to rub off easily, because he won’t be able to call you to set up a hot date.
4. Profit from Technology
If he lets you see his phone to look at a web page or picture, take the opportunity to enter your number onto his contact list. Make sure that you tell him that it’s on there, or leave the page open, so that he realizes that he has your info. If you just put the number in there and never tell him about it, he may not notice, and you’ll never chat.
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5. Bet the Boy
If you both love the same show, or sports team, you can make a bet over what the outcome will be. Tell him that the winner buys the loser dinner. If you do so, you’re practically setting up a date for the two of you, and it’s difficult to date if you don’t have each other’s number. Give him your number, and tell him that you look forward to your victory meal.
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6. Everyone
If you're super shy, and you're with a group of people, give all of them your number. The only downside is that he won't know if he's special to you, so he might not call. However, this is one of the least risky ways to go about the task.
7. Bring It up
If he tells you about a party he went to, and then says, “You should’ve come,” reply by saying that you don’t think you’ve ever given him your number. If he brushes it off, then forget about him. But if he whips out his phone to enter your digits, then you know he’s interested.
Men aren't required to make the first move. If you like someone, there's nothing stopping you from giving them your number. It'll give you a chance to get to know each other and communicate more. Do you text your crush?
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Wendy: @francesca he wants to get to know you better I think
mmagirl: All of these ideas are perfect!
Aleah: So I meet this guy when I took my sibling trick or treating last year. We came to this one house and him and his dad and friend where sitting in the garage. Handing out candy and serving apple cider and hot chocolate. Anyways we walked up there and got candy and some hot cocoa and the hot guy says quote: "I like your costume" with a big smile and he's all starry-eyed. I can only get out a thank you and a smile and then he kept smiling and then his dad came out and said to take as much candy as we wanted. But anyways I really think he's cute and would like to get his number. How should I go about talking to him and make sure he gets my number?
Trae: how about give a guy your number over Instagram if we met before?
Mia: shyness can be good sometimes but figure out if he has given his email/number to any other girls if he has it probably means he doesn't have the same feelings for you if not just try emailing him u can still use flirting techniques with him via email but if u really want his number just give him yours and ask him to text u
Francesca: he does have a phone but I realized he's pretty shy around me and I am shy around him.
Suzi: @francesca that means forget about him. he is attached.
Marbs: @francesca maybe he has a girlfriend
lilly: never be afraid to say something when you know he just amusing to you
Francesca: he doesn't have a girlfriend he just moved and he's definitely single.
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