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Awesome Ways to Make Your Single Years Significant ...

By Victoria

Ever wondered how to make your single years significant? I have been single for most of my life and I’m 30 years old. I consider myself to be an attractive female. I believe I have a number of things to offer in a relationship. But my singleness has seemed to be the luck of the draw, but it’s been a great journey. I have had sad days. I have had good days. The reality is that being single is a journey and you experience a range of emotions. Here are a few things that I have learned and would like to give these nuggets to you to enjoy your journey of singleness. Here's how to make your single years significant.

1 Use Your Singleness as Self-discovery

Discover exactly who you are. Ask yourself tough questions, like: What do I really like? Where do I want to go? What pisses me off? What inspires me? What discourages me? Answering these questions can take years of self-discovery. But, you don’t want to get into a relationship not having even the slightest idea of these answers. Self-awareness makes us better partners and is one of the best answers for how to make your single years significant.

2 Don’t Wait for a Relationship to LIVE

Have fun now. Take the trip. Buy the house. Go to the concert. Living as a single woman makes you all the more marketable. You’re building your repertoire of discussion topics.

3 Stop Mulling over It

Divert your attention away from singleness and think about your life’s possibilities. Don’t measure your friend’s engagement as a sign of failure in your life. Don’t take FB and Instagram posts as the totality of life. They are not a measuring stick for your success.

4 Embrace Your Current Relationships and Form New Ones

Get a sister circle or a brother circle to help you during those trying times. Relationships teach you things about you.

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