Although you've probably seen tons of different dating tips for interracial couples, do they all work? Have you tried any of them? Interracial couples are thankfully no longer in the minority, there are tons of couples that are mixed and it's a beautiful thing! If you are are in an interracial couple and are dying for some dating tips for interracial couples that actually make sense and work, I've got them below! Remember, your love is all that matters, not the color of your skin.
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1. Have Self Confidence
Of course, the very first out of 8 dating tips for interracial couples is going to revolve around having self confidence in yourself and your relationship. You want to believe in your relationship, otherwise why be in it? A relationship should be built on love, not what other people think or say. Remember that and be confident in what you are building together!
2. Nobody Can Tell You Who to Love
Nobody in the world can tell you who to love, no matter what. If you fall in love with someone Asian and you are white, that's okay! If you fall in love with someone black and you are Indian, that's okay too! It is not about what color your skin is or where you come from, and don't ever let anyone tell you that it is.
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3. Don't Pay Attention to the Public
No matter what the public says or the looks that you get, don't worry about it. You love one another and you are stronger than that. In this generation, interracial couples are not the minority anymore, so just remember, you are not alone in the world and you should flaunt your relationship!
4. You Are More Likely to Survive Hard Times
When you are in an interracial relationship, typically you will be able to survive a lot of hard times and it will make you stronger. The reason is because already, just being together, you are overcoming a lot of obstacles! So remember, the next time you two get into a fight, it will be okay and you will survive it!
5. Don't Worry about the Old-Fashioned
I know that there are a lot of old-fashioned people out there that have their beliefs and are sticking to them. I'm gay and I face a lot of that already, but just because you are with someone that is different from you, that doesn't meant that you have to cater to the old-fashioned ideologies. Don't worry about it; just be proud of your relationship and your love for each other!
6. No Awkwardness
While you might not understand some of the things that your partner does, because of maybe their religion or because of where they grew up, that doesn't mean that you have to be awkward about it. If you are dating an Indian and you are white, why not learn a bit about their culture and what makes them do and be the way that they are?
7. Know the Person You Are Dating
This actually applies to all relationships in the world – why not know the person that you are dating? Know them inside and out, know what makes them tick. This will make sure that you survive and that your relationship is that much stronger, no matter what!
8. Strong Foundation
Finally, the last dating tip for interracial couples that I have really, again, applies to all relationships. You've got to have a really strong foundation in your relationship to stay together and to survive anything and everything. My girlfriend and I are very strong and both know that we are not going anywhere.
So, if you are in an interracial relationship, have you ever faced any of these? What tips did you use? How did you stay strong?
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sassy-girl: agree
Nani: @Raffi I live in New York , born and raised . Been through manhattan queens and Long Island . I am black and have dated white guys all my life . I have constantly gotten racist comments from their families and friends , disapproving eyes from strangers , so I don't know what part of NYC you live in , but I'd love to go there ! (: . My fiancée is German , and I am French . Our families disapprove of our relationship for 2 reasons , our skin colors , and the fact that he's German and I'm French ( France and Germany , no no ) . I'm constantly getting crap from his really old fashioned grandma . This article was refreshing ! We never let it get to us . Doesn't matter who you love , as long as your happy :D .
Desirae: I'm Mexican and my boyfriend is black we live in Texas which I regret to say still has a good amount of racism. It's really sad because his family are angels and have excepted from day 1 my family started off skeptical about it but I've always been the strong willed one of my family so when they realized he nor I were going to change they accepted him. However we live in San Antonio which is predominantly Mexican we get the ugliest looks..I mean we've had someone come up to me to say I should be ashamed for being with someone black! But I love him and no matter what I will NEVER give that up for what other ppl think. Thank you for posting this it means a lot.
Claudia: Really? Do you guys need to get tips for that? I'm sorry I'm a brazilian mixed race girl and I need to say. although we still have some issues about racism, this is something we can handle naturally.
carrie: This article actually makes me sad, i'm white n my boyfriend is black both our families couldn't care less n minus 1 incident we've never experienced racism so its sad to me people experience horrible reactions coz of their choice of partners n that inter-racial couples actually NEED tips. Although i live in London n its no biggie here.
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