Although you've probably seen tons of different dating tips for interracial couples, do they all work? Have you tried any of them? Interracial couples are thankfully no longer in the minority, there are tons of couples that are mixed and it's a beautiful thing! If you are are in an interracial couple and are dying for some dating tips for interracial couples that actually make sense and work, I've got them below! Remember, your love is all that matters, not the color of your skin.
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1. Have Self Confidence
Of course, the very first out of 8 dating tips for interracial couples is going to revolve around having self confidence in yourself and your relationship. You want to believe in your relationship, otherwise why be in it? A relationship should be built on love, not what other people think or say. Remember that and be confident in what you are building together!
2. Nobody Can Tell You Who to Love
Nobody in the world can tell you who to love, no matter what. If you fall in love with someone Asian and you are white, that's okay! If you fall in love with someone black and you are Indian, that's okay too! It is not about what color your skin is or where you come from, and don't ever let anyone tell you that it is.
3. Don't Pay Attention to the Public
No matter what the public says or the looks that you get, don't worry about it. You love one another and you are stronger than that. In this generation, interracial couples are not the minority anymore, so just remember, you are not alone in the world and you should flaunt your relationship!
4. You Are More Likely to Survive Hard Times
When you are in an interracial relationship, typically you will be able to survive a lot of hard times and it will make you stronger. The reason is because already, just being together, you are overcoming a lot of obstacles! So remember, the next time you two get into a fight, it will be okay and you will survive it!
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5. Don't Worry about the Old-Fashioned
I know that there are a lot of old-fashioned people out there that have their beliefs and are sticking to them. I'm gay and I face a lot of that already, but just because you are with someone that is different from you, that doesn't meant that you have to cater to the old-fashioned ideologies. Don't worry about it; just be proud of your relationship and your love for each other!
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6. No Awkwardness
While you might not understand some of the things that your partner does, because of maybe their religion or because of where they grew up, that doesn't mean that you have to be awkward about it. If you are dating an Indian and you are white, why not learn a bit about their culture and what makes them do and be the way that they are?
7. Know the Person You Are Dating
This actually applies to all relationships in the world – why not know the person that you are dating? Know them inside and out, know what makes them tick. This will make sure that you survive and that your relationship is that much stronger, no matter what!
8. Strong Foundation
Finally, the last dating tip for interracial couples that I have really, again, applies to all relationships. You've got to have a really strong foundation in your relationship to stay together and to survive anything and everything. My girlfriend and I are very strong and both know that we are not going anywhere.
So, if you are in an interracial relationship, have you ever faced any of these? What tips did you use? How did you stay strong?
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Stephanie: I am black and my husband is white. We have been together for 23 years. I believe many bi-racial couples subconsciously expect negative reactions and therefore their experiences become self-fulfilled prophecies. My advice would be to focus on each other and don\'t worry a bit about what others will say and/or think. We live in the south and we have never, in our 23 years together had a negative experience. That\'s not to say that there aren\'t people who disapprove of our relationship. We just don\'t look for or expect it.
Desirae: I'm Mexican and my boyfriend is black we live in Texas which I regret to say still has a good amount of racism. It's really sad because his family are angels and have excepted from day 1 my family started off skeptical about it but I've always been the strong willed one of my family so when they realized he nor I were going to change they accepted him. However we live in San Antonio which is predominantly Mexican we get the ugliest looks..I mean we've had someone come up to me to say I should be ashamed for being with someone black! But I love him and no matter what I will NEVER give that up for what other ppl think. Thank you for posting this it means a lot.
Raffi: Reading this is so weird for me. I was born and raised in New York City and no one even blinks if you're an interracial couple. So it's strange to believe there are places in America where it's still considered taboo.
Brigit: Very nice article :)
carrie: This article actually makes me sad, i'm white n my boyfriend is black both our families couldn't care less n minus 1 incident we've never experienced racism so its sad to me people experience horrible reactions coz of their choice of partners n that inter-racial couples actually NEED tips. Although i live in London n its no biggie here.
Claudia: It's all about self confidence and being proud of your heritage, that's it. Here in Brazil it's more about social position than race I think. But when the couple feels confortable with all the situation everything gets easier....
Derika: I am a biracial child and in an interracial relationship. I loved this article because in the town I grew up in I heard quite a bit that I should only date within my race or guys couldn't date me because their parents wouldn't approve of the relationship. It's nice to know that someone else cares and thinks about the way it still affects people at times.
Derika: I love in Oklahoma and I have heard people say that black women are just a white man's whore. I haven't had to deal with racism in the relationship I am in now but I have with previous relationships. A lot of it is self confidence and how you and your spouse handle the situation. I keep my head high because he chose me and I chose him. I get more questions and looks about my children because they are very pale.
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