What do guys generally think of high-maintenance women?

Most guys find high-maintenance women a bit overwhelming. It's like they're put under constant pressure to meet high standards, which can be exhausting. Sure, there are guys who enjoy the challenge, but many prefer someone a bit more laid-back.

Is being low-maintenance considered a good trait?

Absolutely, it's often seen as a positive trait! Being low-maintenance usually means you're easy to please and don't require a lot of fuss, which can make relationships smoother and more enjoyable.

How can I tell if I'm a low-maintenance woman?

If you're pretty chill, don't need a lot of fancy things or constant attention, and can go with the flow, chances are you're low-maintenance. Being content with simple pleasures and not causing drama are also good indicators.

Do men really prefer low-maintenance women?

Many men do! A low-maintenance approach can make relationships less stressful and more enjoyable. It's not about being boring; it's about being easygoing and appreciative of the small things.

Are there men who are low-maintenance too?

Absolutely! Just like women, some men are low-maintenance, meaning they don't need a lot of attention, material things, or constant activities to be happy. It's all about finding that balance that works for both partners.

Men love to lead simple lives free from drama. That's why they're more attracted to women who are low-maintenance and down to earth. They enjoy being in relationships where they aren't constantly stressed out along with their partner and forced to worry about every little thing. Here are a few of the most important low-maintenance traits men want their girlfriends to have:

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1. Not Picky

When a man takes the time to pick out an outfit and restaurant for a date, he doesn't want you to criticize his choices. If you do, then it's only going to make him feel bad about himself, like he isn't good enough. Men love low-maintenance women, because they're more likely to appreciate the hard work he put into the date, even if the evening turns out to be a dud.

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So ladies, remember to show gratitude and keep an open mind. Every effort he makes is a step towards creating a special moment between the two of you. Compliments on his choices can go a long way and encourage him to keep planning future adventures for you both. A little appreciation for his efforts can mean the difference between a good date and a great one.

2. Not Obsessed with Money

A gift should get a thank you, no matter how pathetic it is. Men appreciate that low maintenance women will be happy that they received jewelry, even if it didn't cost hundreds of dollars. As much as men want to treat their women like princesses, they don't want to feel like they're being forced to waste their paychecks on elaborate gifts.

3. Not a Drama Queen

Sure, your man might ask you how your day at the office was, but that doesn't mean he actually wants to hear every little detail about the frenemies you work with. Men aren't fans of gossip, because it signals trouble. That means they don't want to know about what a jerk your girlfriends are or about your hairdresser's private life. Low-maintenance girls are more casual and friendly, which means that they're less likely to be constantly talking about drama.

4. Not a Big Spender

If a man is going to spend the rest of his life with you, he'll feel better about his decision if you're careful with money. High-maintenance women like to have designer bags and dresses, so they'll be more likely to waste away whatever money they earn. Being good with your money won't only help you secure a good home, but it might make your man marry you.

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5. Not a Time Waster

Your man wants you to look your best, but he doesn't want you to spend hours in the bathroom before leaving the house. High-maintenance women won't budge until every hair is in place. That's why he'd rather be with a woman who is happy with herself, even when her makeup is a little smeared.

6. Not Superior

Some high-maintenance women assume that they're better than everyone else. While a man wants his girlfriend to have confidence, he also wants her to realize that they're equals. If one person believes that they're better than the other, the relationship will never work. Men love low-maintenance girls, because they never act like they're superior. They know that they're human, just like everybody else.

7. Not Materialistic

Low-maintenance women aren't fooled into believing that material items are the most important thing in the world. When a woman values her jewelry and gems above him, he won't be happy. He'd prefer to be with a woman who knows that love truly is the most important thing.

Every man is different, but most of them value these traits, because it'll make the relationship run smoother. Do other consider you high or low maintenance?

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Where Thoughts and Opinions Converge

Beryl
2015-03-20T08:45:30.650Z
I think if a man is successful then he usually wants to spoil you a bit. Most men like ladies to enjoy their food albeit a five star one or just a sardine and lettuce one in the park. Be yourself and if it doesn't fit in with his life then tough- there is always someone else who thinks you are fabulous just as you are.
kissmebbylove
2015-03-19T21:28:04.186Z
just be yourself. if you are a high maintence gurl then be it
Sassy121
2015-03-20T02:10:10.222Z
Ifs guy goes out with a Paris Hilton type then they know exactly what they are getting into. I do agree with Daniel that guys just want a hug not rehash a bad day. I find they open up once you just hug them and let them tell you what went wrong. Most times they just want someone to talk to and listen.
Jennapher
2015-03-19T16:04:55.721Z
OMG, Holly...you sound as if you are describing the "cool girl", and if you don't get the reference, read Gone Girl...I understand your intentions here, but just when does this lucky guy who has snagged the cool girl have to actually put any real honest effort into the relationship? When do I get to make the reservations at the restaurant I chose, and am allowed to forget his birthday, or tell him I think his hair is too long or too short? Hey, I hate drama too, and I'm not fond of gossip, but if I ask a man about his day, I expect him to tell me honestly whether his day was five-star, or sucked! Nothing personal Holly cuz I love your posts, but low maintenance is for cars, not women😏
Serene
2015-03-19T20:45:01.573Z
I am me and he loves me as I am, warts and all. We don't 'change' but rather we give and take. That's what a relationship is all about. Additionally, I am working and don't need him to 'maintain' me. We decided that we will b careful with money so that we build a healthy nest egg and can retire early.
Summer
2015-03-20T02:29:19.094Z
This could use a different title. I like the tips however a woman should not lower herself or standards just to get a man who will probably not value her as much as she does him to have to have made all these changes. It should be give and take.
Lex
2015-03-19T19:01:21.130Z
Amen Jenna!!!!
Daniel
2015-03-19T20:26:53.986Z
Amen Sandy! The point isn't that we want to change ourselves into something we are not but that we want to be a better person! Works the same for both species! Want a better PERSON be a better PERSON!
Daniel
2015-03-19T19:27:14.585Z
Women always expect men to put up with their maintenance. While maintenance is good high maintenance is a relationship killer! Seriously ladies, would you put up with a guy who you would consider as high maintenance? Of course not! This works both ways, but idea is to create an attraction that is overpowering...kinda hard to do that when he is weeding through all those things you expect him to put up with while you are nailing him to the cross for all of his imperfections! If you get him hooked on you there is no mountain high enough that he wouldn't climb to please you...don't waste it on petty things! Oh and Jen, if he's had a shitty day, the last thing he wants to do is to rehash it... He just wants to be with you...that's all the tonic he needs!
Kim
2015-03-20T03:05:58.320Z
Not true. My husband enjoys my picky tastes and the way I dress for him.