7 Low-Maintenance Traits Men Want Their Girlfriends to Have ...

Holly Mar 19, 2015

Men love to lead simple lives free from drama. That's why they're more attracted to women who are low-maintenance and down to earth. They enjoy being in relationships where they aren't constantly stressed out along with their partner and forced to worry about every little thing. Here are a few of the most important low-maintenance traits men want their girlfriends to have:

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1. Not Picky

When a man takes the time to pick out an outfit and restaurant for a date, he doesn't want you to criticize his choices. If you do, then it's only going to make him feel bad about himself, like he isn't good enough. Men love low-maintenance women, because they're more likely to appreciate the hard work he put into the date, even if the evening turns out to be a dud.

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So ladies, remember to show gratitude and keep an open mind. Every effort he makes is a step towards creating a special moment between the two of you. Compliments on his choices can go a long way and encourage him to keep planning future adventures for you both. A little appreciation for his efforts can mean the difference between a good date and a great one.

2. Not Obsessed with Money

A gift should get a thank you, no matter how pathetic it is. Men appreciate that low maintenance women will be happy that they received jewelry, even if it didn't cost hundreds of dollars. As much as men want to treat their women like princesses, they don't want to feel like they're being forced to waste their paychecks on elaborate gifts.

Frequently asked questions

Most guys find high-maintenance women a bit overwhelming. It's like they're put under constant pressure to meet high standards, which can be exhausting. Sure, there are guys who enjoy the challenge, but many prefer someone a bit more laid-back.

Absolutely, it's often seen as a positive trait! Being low-maintenance usually means you're easy to please and don't require a lot of fuss, which can make relationships smoother and more enjoyable.

If you're pretty chill, don't need a lot of fancy things or constant attention, and can go with the flow, chances are you're low-maintenance. Being content with simple pleasures and not causing drama are also good indicators.

Many men do! A low-maintenance approach can make relationships less stressful and more enjoyable. It's not about being boring; it's about being easygoing and appreciative of the small things.

Absolutely! Just like women, some men are low-maintenance, meaning they don't need a lot of attention, material things, or constant activities to be happy. It's all about finding that balance that works for both partners.

3. Not a Drama Queen

Sure, your man might ask you how your day at the office was, but that doesn't mean he actually wants to hear every little detail about the frenemies you work with. Men aren't fans of gossip, because it signals trouble. That means they don't want to know about what a jerk your girlfriends are or about your hairdresser's private life. Low-maintenance girls are more casual and friendly, which means that they're less likely to be constantly talking about drama.

4. Not a Big Spender

If a man is going to spend the rest of his life with you, he'll feel better about his decision if you're careful with money. High-maintenance women like to have designer bags and dresses, so they'll be more likely to waste away whatever money they earn. Being good with your money won't only help you secure a good home, but it might make your man marry you.

5. Not a Time Waster

Your man wants you to look your best, but he doesn't want you to spend hours in the bathroom before leaving the house. High-maintenance women won't budge until every hair is in place. That's why he'd rather be with a woman who is happy with herself, even when her makeup is a little smeared.

6. Not Superior

Some high-maintenance women assume that they're better than everyone else. While a man wants his girlfriend to have confidence, he also wants her to realize that they're equals. If one person believes that they're better than the other, the relationship will never work. Men love low-maintenance girls, because they never act like they're superior. They know that they're human, just like everybody else.

7. Not Materialistic

Low-maintenance women aren't fooled into believing that material items are the most important thing in the world. When a woman values her jewelry and gems above him, he won't be happy. He'd prefer to be with a woman who knows that love truly is the most important thing.

Every man is different, but most of them value these traits, because it'll make the relationship run smoother. Do other consider you high or low maintenance?

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Men ask for way too much. How abt what we like!? Be yourself.

I think if a man is successful then he usually wants to spoil you a bit. Most men like ladies to enjoy their food albeit a five star one or just a sardine and lettuce one in the park. Be yourself and if it doesn't fit in with his life then tough- there is always someone else who thinks you are fabulous just as you are.

This is very "change yourself to please a man " and that's really crappy. I disagree. I'm extremely picky about food and only go to some restaurants (due to an anxiety disorder) but my boyfriend loves it. He thinks it's cute and understands that im obviously not doing it to annoy him, and that it's something that's part of me. Same with getting ready. I get panic attacks if I stress myself out to much, so when I get ready, I blast music, and take my time. It's my relaxation time so it can take anywhere from 20 minutes to 6 hours. It's all preference. Some guys like the super high maintenance gucci only kind of girls, some guys like Girls who live in tents and pee in bushes. But nobody likes when you change yourself for someone.

Not true. My husband enjoys my picky tastes and the way I dress for him.

OMG, Holly...you sound as if you are describing the "cool girl", and if you don't get the reference, read Gone Girl...I understand your intentions here, but just when does this lucky guy who has snagged the cool girl have to actually put any real honest effort into the relationship? When do I get to make the reservations at the restaurant I chose, and am allowed to forget his birthday, or tell him I think his hair is too long or too short? Hey, I hate drama too, and I'm not fond of gossip, but if I ask a man about his day, I expect him to tell me honestly whether his day was five-star, or sucked! Nothing personal Holly cuz I love your posts, but low maintenance is for cars, not women😏

Well, Daniel, I see your point, but you seem to be missing my initial point about the "cool girl"....so if a guy has had a shitty day. I shouldn't ask him about, I should just put on my VS lingerie, and allow him to lose himself within the folds of my enticing femininity? Hmmmm, if women always expect a man to put up with their maintenance, do men always expect a woman to go out of their way to be so low maintenance that all they have to do is change the oil every 5,000 miles? I agree it works both ways...there is no "cool girl"😏

Ifs guy goes out with a Paris Hilton type then they know exactly what they are getting into. I do agree with Daniel that guys just want a hug not rehash a bad day. I find they open up once you just hug them and let them tell you what went wrong. Most times they just want someone to talk to and listen.

I am me and he loves me as I am, warts and all. We don't 'change' but rather we give and take. That's what a relationship is all about. Additionally, I am working and don't need him to 'maintain' me. We decided that we will b careful with money so that we build a healthy nest egg and can retire early.

Jen, if you'd do that for me, I'd buy you a new care every $5,000 miles! 😍😉

This could use a different title. I like the tips however a woman should not lower herself or standards just to get a man who will probably not value her as much as she does him to have to have made all these changes. It should be give and take.

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