Body Language That Suggests All He Wants is Sex ...

By Holly

A true gentleman is hard to find, especially when you're young. There are plenty of guys who seem like perfect mates, but that's only because they're pretending to be interested in you for your personality, when all they're really interested in sex. If your not sure where your man stands, here are a few body language signals that suggest he's only looking for sex:

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1. He Looks at Your Cleavage, Not Your Eyes

When your man talks to you, does he look you in the eyes or is his glance a little further down? It's natural for straight boys to peek at your cleavage, but if your guy respects you, that won't be where he's looking for the whole night, especially when you're trying to tell him something important.

2. He Stares at Other Girls in Front of You

It's fine for him to glance at a pretty girl that passes by or if he looks at your waitress for a second too long. However, if you notice his eyes wander every single time that a female passes by, that's a problem. If he graduates from using inappropriate body language to actually making crude comments about those women, then it's time to leave.

3. He Touches You Sexually Instead of Sweetly

What your man doesn't do is just as important as what he does do. Does he hold your hand when you're watching a movie together or does he always try to touch you between your thighs? Does he ever give you sweet kisses on the cheek, or does he only give you french kisses with way too much tongue?

4. He Always Stands a Bit Too Close

It's normal for him to get close to you on the dance floor or when you're alone together on the couch. However, if he's always on top of you when you're in public, or even worse, around your parents, then he's way too focused on the physical aspect of your relationship.

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5. He Gropes You Whenever He Can

How long into the make out session does it take him to feel you up? If he starts grabbing your chest as soon as you lock lips, then he's eager to get to the bedroom.

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6. He Always Has a Bulge in His Pants

This one is the most obvious. When you're with your man, does he always have a bulge in his pants? Most of the time, you can view it as a compliment. But if the bulge is there while he's consoling you as you cry or while you're talking about a wart you had removed at the doctor, he's probably paying less attention to your words and more attention to your looks.

7. The Way He Touches You Makes You Uncomfortable

It doesn't matter if he puts his hands on your upper thigh or if he just touches your shoulder--if you're uncomfortable about being touched, then he shouldn't lay his hands on you. No exceptions. If a guy doesn't understand personal boundaries, then there's no reason for you to spend any more of your time with him.

Sometimes, you have to ignore the words a guy is saying and pay attention to his body language. It's easy for him to lie with his mouth, but it's harder for him to deceive you with the rest of his body. What other body language do you associate with an overly sexual guy?

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I was with a married man and he never left his wife. He lied to me. He lied to both of us. I suggest men stop playing with women's emotions. And be honest. If you're not things could get ugly. He's lucky I'm not the vengeful type. I left him. And I learned something. And that something is, "never believe a mans words... instead, pay close attn to his actions" ✌️

ya i know these guys, very annoying!!!

I don't think he really loves you if he's having fun with other woman instead of making his wife happy and keep repeating his mistakes.. He simply needs to stop! @Haweee m

Yes sister @moas, with Duaa every is goin to be ok. Allah wil giv me d best solution.

You right that's exactly what am going, but my kids he will not let me say them again, dats our religion and tradition. Unless if it's a baby am breastfeeding. Thank you

May Allah give you the patiences sister hawee. Believe me nothing is better than praying to Allah for help and making Duaa

Amine

...Or just delete your comments... Ok. x

No I have read, and I have been to many Islamic school, but I can't say what exactly Quran say's about this, but all I know for sure is here in Nigeria when a man divorce his wife he took the children from her, I even mention our religion and tradition. I discuss dis issue wit him. All he do is to ask for forgiveness. I even left the house and go but he refuses to divorce me. And I dint let my parent know what he is doing cos I don't what to runes his reputation. So my parent brought me back. And he promised me he has change, at first place I believe him. Bt now I found out again. And I was heart broken.

It's my pleasure dear sister ! ❤️ in sha'Allah everything will be fine with the help of Allah souban'Allah wa tahla.

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