6. The Social Stigma is Disappearing

As I said, there are still plenty of parts in the world where living together before marriage is considered a scandal, and there might even be a community in your environment too.

But it’s a fact that the social stigma around living together before marriage is disappearing, meaning more couples will make the decision to move in together and more parents find it acceptable for their kids to do so. I am from the Netherlands and it’s been very normal to live together ever since I can remember. In fact, there are couples who live together for most of their lives without even getting married.

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i think men should make the first move on moving into a house together with their girlfriends
Chippyblue923 that's a horrible experience but it's better finding out before you get married how he really is.
Neecey Beresford
@chippyblue923, But don't you think you are better off knowing those horrible things about him before you get married? Better t dump a cheater before you marry him, than divorce him after surely?
It's a bad idea. My boyfriend moved in with my grandparents and me and it was horrible. All he wanted was sex and his temper was worse than when we were living separately. he didn't want any responsib...
Talie Pretty
Monique Harding
Living together may not always work. If you live with someone before you get married, you may delay getting married. Cohabitating, shaking up or the like, may not be good for two ppl. Men have a tende...
My boyfriend and I have been talking about marriage and living together after graduating from University and get our careers going, and I think it's a great thing to do. Not only will it save on money...
This is my beau and I.. Def a gd thing :)
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