7 Tips on How to Build Trust when You're in a Long-Distance Relationship ...

By Corina • Apr 27, 2014 MD

If you and your partner live a couple of hours or even two time zones apart from each other, you should learn how to build trust when you’re in a long distance relationship. . Long-distance relationships do create extra challenges and stressors and you might have to overcome quite a lot of difficult obstacles, but if you trust each other, you can cultivate a very happy and fulfilling relationship. Here are a few very useful tips on how to build trust when you’re in a long distance relationship.

1. Don’t Keep Secrets

One of the most important things you should do if you want to know how to build trust when you’re in a long distance relationship is to never keep secrets. They will only make you doubt each other. I’m not saying you should tell your partner right from the start your deepest and darkest secrets. Just make sure you don’t hide important information, since this could really damage your relationship.

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2. Make Sure Your Words and Actions Match

To build trust in your long-distance relationship, make sure your words and actions always match. For example, if you say that you are going home to call your partner at a certain hour, then make sure you do that. If you can't be there on time, send them a message and explain. This shows you are an honest person who has nothing to hide and who always keeps their promises.

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3. Be Realistic

Try not to have unrealistic expectations when you’re in a long-distance relationship. It’s not always easy to make a this kind of relationship work and you need to accept the fact that you might have to overcome a lot of obstacles and face all kinds of difficult challenges to be happy. You must be prepared to handle the distance and you must be willing to make a lot of sacrifices if you want your love to prevail.

Advice becomes useful when each point is translated into concrete weekly actions both people can track. Use "Don’t Keep Secrets" as a starting habit and refine it as your relationship evolves. For practical ideas, use the long-term relationship generator to keep your plans fresh and intentional.

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4. Communicate Every Day

When you’re in a long-distance relationship, it’s extremely important for you and your partner to communicate every day. Even if you don’t enjoy talking on the phone or sending texts, make sure you make the time to do it, since communication is the key to a happy and fulfilling relationship. I’m sure you have a lot of beautiful things you can share with each other, so why not do it more often?

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If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. See Each Other Regularly

Always find a way to visit each other regularly. Don’t let anything separate you and work on your trust issues, so that nothing can come between you. Schedule your days off in order to match your partner’s free time and decide who will visit whom and how often.

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6. Surprise Your Partner

What better way to strengthen your relationship than by surprising your partner on a regular basis? If you have the possibility, you could make them a spontaneous surprise visit.. You will be there by their side and this way; the distance that usually separates you will not seem like such a challenge anymore.

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7. Have Faith in Your Partner

Even if this may seem a bit hard to accomplish sometimes, have faith in your partner and if they tell you that they are doing a certain thing, then believe them and take their word for it. I’m sure you do know that everyone is innocent until proven guilty. So, if you don’t have any reasons to question what they’ve told you, control your jealousy and don’t let doubt cloud your judgment.

A long-distance relationship requires a lot of hard work, but if you are willing to make a few small sacrifices just to keep your love intact, then distance will not stand in the way of your happiness. Have you ever been in a long-distance relationship? How was it? Do you know any other tips on how to build trust in a long-distance relationship? Please share your thoughts with us in the comments section!

Sources:
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  • Gabriela

    2014-04-28T03:40:25.143Z

    I was in a long distance. Unfortunately something that I thought was going to be great, ended in 8 months. The difference for me was that I met him on vacation. It was very unexpected. The one thing that I want to chip in is if you are the only one making an effort he might not be as into you as you are into him. I travelled for him twice and when it was his turn. There was a lot of excuses. Met his family and all yet he wouldn't travel to meet mine. But I think if both sides are trying it definitely could work. Best wishes to all of you and your relationships!
  • Kit

    2014-04-27T21:14:39.341Z

    I'm in a long distance relationship. One thing that is normal in a relationship is to fight. And if there aren't any fights it might mean some one is hiding something from the other. My boyfriend and I always talk everything out till we come to an agreement and we feel content with the solution. And it's good to be honest about how you are feeling and not get too caught up in the relationship so that you're only in it to please him. You have to be happy too!
  • Dylan

    2014-04-28T02:29:09.472Z

    Reading this I think makes me feel a little better. But I'm still nervous to start my long distance relationship. My boyfriend and I have been dating a year and a half and I'm leaving in four months for school a couple hours away but I'm so used to him being exactly two miles down the road
  • Athenah

    2014-04-27T21:27:58.881Z

    The visiting often is hard for me, there is an ocean separating us :p
  • Anam

    2014-04-27T20:12:09.990Z

    I think no.7 is specifically written for me
  • Tiffany

    2014-04-27T20:32:29.077Z

    I have a long distance relationship, and we plan to get married next year.
  • Aparna

    2014-04-27T21:34:45.064Z

    I've been in one for more than two years now. As Kit Kat said, there will be fights, but you have to be honest with each other. My bf and I don't fight often but when we do, we always end up forgiving each other and making amends. It's almost refreshing, and only makes our relationship stronger :) So.. Trust your partner and BE honest. Or else, ldrs won't work.
  • Anna

    2014-05-18T16:26:16.452Z

    what if u find our he constantly lying? make u believe he loves u so much? but still lying because he don't want to hurt u?
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