19 Sexy Texts to Make Him Want You... Now ...

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19 Sexy Texts to Make Him Want You... Now ...

Texting turns so easily into sexting when you're talking to someone you're seriously into, don't you think? It might be your crush, your FWB, your boyfriend, or your husband (ditto your girlfriend or wife, tbh), but either way, sometimes you just want to make him want you so bad that he can't even stand it. Since texting makes that so easy and since you can do it discreetly, it's a sexy, secret way to make your man want you like nobody's business. These sexy texts to make him want you will do the trick.

1 “What Would You like Me to Wear to Bed Tonight?”

photo shoot, You'll get him thinking about the two of you together no matter where he is at the time.

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2 “I Don't Know Why, but All I Want Right Now is Sex.”

black, white, painting, photograph, vision care, Directly letting him know what you want at the moment is a sure way to make him want you.

3 “I Dreamed That I Was Your Sex Slave Last Night and It Was so Hot.”

photo shoot, pattern, formal wear, Who, are, Knowing that someone you fancy had a sex dream about you does wonders for both the ego and the libido.

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This confession is bound to send a tantalizing shiver down his spine. It's the perfect blend of raw honesty and naughty imagination that can kick-start a steamy conversation or even pave the way for an adventurous rendezvous. With a message like this, you're giving him a glimpse into your most intimate fantasies, letting him know he's the one you dream about in your most forbidden moments. It's a clear, bold invitation for him to explore those fantasies with you, making him feel both desired and in charge.

4 “when You Get Home, Let's Watch Some Porn.”

Only say this if you actually enjoy watching porn with your partner, though.

5 “I Wish You Were Here Right Now. I'm Too Damn Horny!”

person, people, profession, keyboard, Rexty, No matter where he is, you can bet your butt that he's going to try to get home as soon as he can.

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When you drop this bombshell, you're playing with fire—in the best way possible. It's direct, descriptive, and doesn't beat around the bush. The imagery of your longing and need for him will have his mind racing and body itching to rush by your side. Expect a record response time as he makes his mission clear—to satisfy you. This text holds power, the kind that hints at an uncontrollable passion that he simply won't be able to resist.

6 “I'm Going to Wear the Shortest Skirt I Have Tonight.”

black, white, performance, black and white, photography, A little bit of promise, a little bit of teasing, and a whole lot of anticipation are all wrapped up in this text.

7 “I Just Bought New Underwear and Can't Wait to Show It to You.”

person, black and white, film noir, Protip: remember that sexy underwear is any underwear that makes you look and feel sexy.

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It's all about the confidence they bring out in you. Remember, it's not just the lace or the cut that ignites the flame—it's the way you strut and twirl in them. Picture this: his anticipation building as he imagines the smooth fabric and unique design. The thrill is in the reveal, but the real magic happens in the way you own it. So go ahead, let that text be your siren call, promising an unforgettable visual treat that's just as much for you as it is for him.

8 “if I Were with You Right Now, Where Would You Want Me to Touch You?”

“if I Were with You Right Now, Where Would You Want Me to Touch You?” This will almost certainly set off a round of proper sexting.

9 “I’m Trying to Sleep, but I Can’t Stop Thinking about All the Things You Could do to Me if You Were with Me Right Now.”

Freeform, text, mobile phone, gadget, text messaging, This will get his imagination going off in all sorts of dirty directions.

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Sending a message like this late at night is guaranteed to ignite his fantasies. As he lies in his bed, all he'll be able to picture are the myriad of ways he could pleasure you, teasing out each scenario in his head. His mind will race from one tantalizing possibility to the next, each image more vivid than the last. It's an irresistible blend of invitation and challenge, a seductive whisper through digital space that pulls him closer to you, even when miles apart. This text is a siren call, ensuring you'll be the star of his nocturnal dreams.

10 “do You Believe in Kiss and Tell? Because I Want You to Kiss Me and do Things to Me in Your Mind and Tell Me All about It.”

person, toy, selfie, sculpture, Here's another way to start a seriously sexy sexting game.

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Seduce his imagination with your words and let the anticipation build. Whisper into his phone with every steamy detail you're fantasizing about. Unleash your desires through messages – let him feel the heat of your breath and the intensity of your longing. This tantalizing play of text will have him counting the seconds until he can turn those thoughts into reality. Make every word a siren call that pulls him irresistibly to you.

11 “Wanna Play a Game with Me?”

City, clothing, outerwear, Citytv, Or you could just ask, of course.

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Sometimes, being straightforward is exactly what you need to draw him in. Initiate a playful yet suggestive game like "Truth or Dare" or "Would You Rather" over text. It's an entertaining and flirty way to uncover his desires while showing off your adventurous side. Use the game as an opportunity to ask cheeky questions or dare him to send a tantalizing photo. The lighthearted competition will not only heighten the anticipation but also deepen your connection, as every sly text brings a promise of excitement.

12 “do You Check Me out when I Walk Away?”

hair, hairstyle, blond, costume, Not only will he now be thinking about you from the back, but when the guy you're into does that, it can be an ego boost, right?

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It's like flipping the fun flirt switch. Suddenly, he's not just picturing your smile; he's got a vivid image of you strutting away and it's ticking all the right boxes. Let's be real, we all love feeling desired, and this question is a cheeky way to get that confirmation. Plus, it sets the stage for a bit of playful banter—the kind that ends with him eagerly waiting for the next time you swing past his line of sight. Keep him guessing, keep him gazing. Just a hint of what he might be missing will have his mind racing and his heart pacing.

13 “Have You Ever Skinny Dipped?”

person, white, photograph, human positions, photography, Anything to get him thinking about you naked, right?

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This cheeky question is a playful nudge into risqué territory. Imagine the smile on his face when he reads this; the instant mental image is a powerful teaser. And let's be honest, that little bit of daring is alluring. It's about the thrill of doing something adventurous, and the subtext here? You're adventurous too. Just be prepared for a loaded response, and who knows, it might lead to your own little midnight swim.

14 “What’s Your Idea of Good Foreplay?”

person, facial expression, portrait, emotion, xfactor, This will, of course, get him thinking of said foreplay, plus you can learn what he likes and reveal your own favorite foreplay techniques.

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Diving into this spicy inquiry not only sparks his imagination, but it also paves the way for intimate sharing. You'll uncover layers of desire as you both flirtatiously confess what sets your pulses racing. Whether it’s teasing texts or whispered secrets, these exchanges fan the flames of anticipation, making every moment leading up to your next rendezvous charged with exhilarating tension. Embrace this dance of desires—after all, good foreplay starts long before the bedroom.

15 “What’s Your Favorite Sexual Fantasy?”

person, human action, singing, TYDA, Bonus points if you use this information to play out his fantasy later.

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Diving into each other’s deepest desires can set the stage for a steamy connection. Get his pulse racing by teasing out what he daydreams about when it comes to intimate encounters. Is it a specific scenario, costume, or role play? Whisper sweet promises to bring his visions to life, creating an irresistible build-up. The anticipation of making those fantasies come true will have him longing for your touch. Remember, keeping an open mind and exploring together can lead to exciting and passionate discoveries in the bedroom.

16 “How Long Will It Take for You to Get Here?”

person, hair, blond, facial expression, singing, Sometimes, you just have to let your boo know that you're serious and it's urgent.

17 “Have You Ever Felt Horny While Texting with Me?”

hair, person, hairstyle, singer, profession, If you've never ventured into sexting territory, this is a great way to get started.

18 "Guess What I'm Thinking? I'll Give You a Hint. It Involves My Tongue and You, Naked."

red, person, art, portrait photography, glasses, This type of message can be enhanced with a few well-chosen emoji, just so you know.

19 "Sucking on a Blow Pop Right Now and Thinking of You..."

hair, person, hairstyle, portrait photography, portrait, Speaking of imagery, am I right?

How do you get your lover excited over text? Do you have a secret emoji language or is well-written prose more arousing?

H/T: pairedlife.com, lovepanky.com, lovepanky.com

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