10 Signs Hes Been Cheating with a Certain Girl ...

By Holly

Hopefully, your boyfriend will never actually cheat on you. However, it can't help to keep your eyes open. It's better to figure out that he's cheating than to be shocked when he leaves you for another girl. Here are a few signs that he's been cheating with a certain someone:

Table of contents:

  1. he gets weird when you mention her
  2. they claim to hate each other
  3. he won’t let you see her text messages
  4. he’s always snap chatting her
  5. she always asks about him
  6. he tells you to be more like her
  7. he’s always staring at her
  8. he gets defensive about her
  9. he deletes texts
  10. he'd rather spend time with her

1 He Gets Weird when You Mention Her

If he acts weird whenever she enters the room, or when you simply mention her name, then something fishy is going on. There's no reason for him to act out of the ordinary when she's brought up. If she's the only one he acts bizarre around, and he doesn't have any excuse for his behavior, then you should be concerned. He might be cheating with her, especially if she's acting as strange as he is.

2 They Claim to Hate Each Other

If he doesn't want you to figure out that he's been cheating with a certain girl, he might go overboard when talking about how much he can't stand her. He thinks that bashing her will stop you from thinking that he's interested in her.

3 He Won’t Let You See Her Text Messages

There's nothing wrong with him having a female friend. However, if he keeps his phone out of your view whenever he texts her, and leaves the room whenever he's on the phone with her, he's acting sketchy. He shouldn't have anything to hide from you, especially when it involves another woman. So be careful.

4 He’s Always Snap Chatting Her

Some people use Snap Chat innocently, but a lot of people use it to send sexual photographs. If a certain woman's name is always popping up on his phone, and he'll never let you see what she sends him, then something is definitely wrong. Chances are that she's snapping him the types of photos that you would hate to see.

5 She Always Asks about Him

If you're friends with the girl you think he's cheating with, it's just as important to pay attention to her behavior as it is to pay attention to his. If she's always asking you questions about how your relationship is going, she might be hoping that there's an issue that causes you two to break up.

6 He Tells You to Be More like Her

Your boyfriend shouldn't tell you what to wear or how to act. Even more importantly, he shouldn't compare you to any other women. If he's always comparing you to a certain girl in his life, then it means he wishes you were more like her. Even if he isn't cheating with her, he might as well be, because he's still being disrespectful to you. You shouldn't have to put up with that type of treatment.

7 He’s Always Staring at Her

It's normal for men to look at pretty ladies when they pass by. However, he shouldn't be staring at anyone. If he's always gawking at a certain girl, then he might be cheating with her. Even if he isn't, it's clear that he finds her attractive.

8 He Gets Defensive about Her

It's one thing if they're friends and he defends her, but if you judge her to see how he'll react and he flies off the handle in her defense, he's probably got feelings for her. And he'll get even more defensive if you accuse him of that.

9 He Deletes Texts

If you know they talk frequently then all of a sudden the texts stop showing up, he's probably deleting them which screams out guilty because if has to hide them they're probably talking in a way they shouldn't be.

10 He'd Rather Spend Time with Her

This is probably the most obvious on the list, but if he'd rather hang out with his friends and she "happens to always be there" then there's probably a strong likelihood they're cheating. He needs guy time but not with other girls around every time, or he should at least invite you with if he knows she's going to be there.

If you think he's cheating, sit him down and ask him about it. If you find out that you've been right all along, then make sure you end it with him, because he doesn't deserve another chance. Do you have a sneaking suspicion that your boyfriend is cheating on you?

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