13 Signs That He *is* the Guy for You ...


We all know the signs he isn't, but what about the signs that he *is* the guy for you? I use my parents as a model for what I want my marriage to be like. They started out as friends but ended up being married for 28 years and would be married for 28 more had my mom not died. They went through deployments, children, cancer and God knows what else and were able to stay together and happy with each other. If you're in a relationship or thinking of getting into one, here are a few of the signs that he is the guy for you. Some seem obvious; others, not so.

1. He Goes out of His Way for You

This alone is one of the biggest signs that he is the guy for you. I know this isn't about feelings, but if you have someone who is willing to put your needs above his (and vice versa), that's a very good sign for the future.

You're Not Afraid to Be Vulnerable


I met a guy a year ago, we've been friends since, he fulfills all 13 signs, but I have no physical attraction to him... is he a keeper? Should I open up to see if any feelings can grow for him? He has...
Dr Rachana
@Kim, hi i feel he is still in friend zone with you, and havent seen you like potential partner, probably you gotta tell him that you like him more than freind :)
I met a guy two year ago through online. We met and was in a relationship for some times. We talked, we sing, we danced and even share our thought like best friend. Not until long, I found out he chea...
Hey, I am friends with this guy and we have a strong bond between. Only when it come to 'i miss you' or leaving kisses (at the end of a conv) he never does it. Whilst with other girls whom he's not ...
okay so I really like this guy in my grade (7th) and I'm getting mixed signals from him. we talk and laugh and we always make eye contact that seams like forever and he always flirts with me, but when...
(Author) @Anna , I'm really glad I could help! Like I said, we all know about the signs that he *isn't* right, but sometimes we need to hear the signs that he *is*. I think my mom is having fun watching my husband and me from heaven.
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