7 Signs You Are Crushing on Someone ...

7 Signs You Are Crushing on Someone ...
By Alicia

There are certain signs you are crushing on someone to look for to be sure if that is how you feel. Sometimes it is difficult to determine our feelings. Sometimes we are not sure if we really like someone or if we are just really good friends. These are some definite signs you are crushing on someone to look for in yourself.

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1. You Live for Moments You Are Together

If you live for the moments when you are together, that is one of the signs you are crushing on someone. You find yourself counting down until you see each other again. It may be that you just have one class together or that you only get to work together for a few hours a week. If you are just waiting until those moments happen again, that is a big sign. You can pretty much bet you have a crush with a capital C.

2. You Think about Them a Lot

Do you think about this certain person a lot? Do they seem to occupy your thoughts and your mind a lot? If so, you are probably crushing on them. Unless you are thinking of them in the context of something they are dealing with and how you might help them, it is probably a crush. This is especially true if you spend time thinking about how attractive they are.

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Obsessive thoughts about the person can manifest in various ways. You might catch yourself replaying conversations you've had with them, or imagining future dialogues. You could be daydreaming about scenarios where you're together in some capacity—either as friends or something more. This constant mental preoccupation can be a telltale sign that this person means more to you than you're willing to admit. Sometimes, you may even prioritize your schedule or your activities based on the possibility of running into them or spending time near them. It's these subtle changes in behavior and thought patterns that indicate your feelings are deeper than you first thought.

3. You Primp before You See Them

Do you tend to check your makeup before you see this person? Look to make sure your hair is perfectly the way you want it to be? Those are signs you are crushing on someone. If you have a crush on someone, you want to look your best around them. You usually take time to make sure that you do look nice before you see them.

4. You Wonder What They Think of You

Do you wonder what this person thinks of you? If you do and it seems more than a passing thought, you might have a crush on them. If you have a crush on someone, you want them to have good thoughts of you. You want them to find you attractive. You also want them to love your personality and everything else about you.

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5. You Think They Are Wonderful

If you just think the person in question is absolutely wonderful then you may be crushing on them. Usually when you have a crush on someone, they can just do no wrong. You think they are just perfect. You can’t find any fault in them. These are very obvious signs of a crush.

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6. You Get Nervous before You See Them

If you tend to get nervous before you see them, you may be crushing on them. Maybe your heart feels fluttery. Maybe you feel a bit of nervousness right in the pit of your stomach. If you feel this way plus have some of these other signs, you can mark it down that you absolutely have a crush. It is good to know how you feel about someone though, so figuring it out is a very good thing!

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If you tend to get nervous before you see them, you may be crushing on them. Maybe your heart feels fluttery. Maybe you feel a bit of nervousness right in the pit of your stomach. If you feel this way plus have some of these other signs, you can mark it down that you absolutely have a crush. **It's good to know how you feel about someone though, so figuring it out is a very good thing!** Having clarity about your emotions allows you to manage your reactions better and can help you decide how to move forward in your relationship. *After all, understanding your feelings is the first step toward deeper connections.*

7. You Secretly Hope They Will Ask You out

If you secretly hope this person will ask you out, there is no doubt that you have a crush. Crushes can be a good thing. They can be a beginning to a great and beautiful relationship. The next step after figuring out that you have a crush is to figure out if your crush is crushing back. Then you know your relationship is headed somewhere.

These are 7 signs that you are crushing on them. Do you have any of them? What do you think?

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I ve got this guy, he is always on mu

Wow this was like spot on! Is it weird that I been talking to this guy for only 3weeks and all we do is face time because he is in the army? That he tells me that he loves me? Sees us living together when he gets out.. Is that weird? I am scared to get hurt, because we are not even dating yet! (We are all ready dropping the L bomb) But I am flying to Texas to meet him for the first time! What do I do!?

I Like him so much and he is my best-friend but Lately When he danced with me I found out My heart is beating soO fast and I had butterfly's he broke up with his girlfriend that night and I thought he likes me back and all but after 2week he is back with his ex and he didnt tell me anything at all :| So I Dont know what to do or what to think :| :(

Lol I guess I have a crush on one of my co- workers from office. Haha! But he never asked me out & I don't know how to make the first step...

So basically...my bff had this bf who I really didn't like because he was really cocky when we met but he was also kind and it confused me... But later when him and my bff broke up it became really odd because me and him clicked and became friends - once I asked him why he got into a relationship with my friend and he said he did it for fun, but if it was with me it would be different... At that point I thought he liked me because he started acting..shy? But today he sent me this really romantic song an I told him he shouldn't have sent it to me but to the girl he likes, and he said he did...but it wasn't to me that he sent it first...it was a girl called alex. I didn't think I liked him at first but maybe I do... Later on though I got over it and he asked me if I was going to find a bf and I told him I would and I went off to text some guys I knew...and imedianttly he told me I was doing a dick move and got mad at me for talking to guys...yet he was the one who is going to go out with this girl...I think I lost him because I never open up to people i like...

Hahah all of them

There's a guy I like. He comes from Georgia. When I first saw him I didn't find him attractive; I thought his friend was cute, but after he approach me for the first time I saw him in a completely different light. He's a bit younger than me by 1 1/2 years, but he looks way older than me. I have a crush on him but I am not going crazy for him because I don't want to get hurt by him. I've liked other guys and they never liked me back, they did not like me for me. This guy is amazing and I notice that he stares at me but he's scare of approaching me. Last Sunday I was standing in line at church to get food and he was by himself (which is rare) and he was standing there facing in my direction with his hands in his pocket and I was on my phone, just looking busy. But as my mom would always tell me, "what belongs to you, belongs to you." I hope it's true with this guy. I am just guarded.

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