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Strut Your Stuff - 7 Ways to Get Your Boyfriend's Attention ...

By Alicia

Sometimes you may feel like you need to do a little something different to get your boyfriend’s attention. Maybe you feel he’s not being as attentive as he should be or you just want to add a little more spice to your relationship. These are 7 things that’re sure to do that. Use one, two or all of them; it’s all about how much attention you want to get.

1 Send Him a Suggestive Text

This can go anyway that you want it to. Sending a suggestive text can be as simple as telling him you’re excited about the plans that the two of you have made or something much racier. This is a personal thing. You know your guy better than anyone so you shouldn’t have any trouble coming up with a sweet or sexy text to send him. As long as it achieves the goal of getting his attention, you’ve succeeded.

2 Change up Your Makeup

You may not think so but your boyfriend probably pays more attention to the way you wear your makeup than you realize. Changing it up can be a good way to make him take a second look at you. You can do this in several different ways. Try on a bright lipstick if you usually wear a nude shade. Play with a smoky eye. Choose to tweak in your makeup in a way that you’ve been curious to try.

3 Wear Glasses

Are you worried about him seeing you in your glasses instead of your contacts? Don’t be. It turns out that many men really like seeing glasses on their girl. There’s something to the sexy librarian look. Letting him see you in glasses will certainly turn his head. If you don’t wear glasses for vision purposes, you can always pick up a fake pair just for looks.

4 Show off Your Curves

What guy doesn’t love to see his girl in something that shows off her curves? This’ll certainly get his attention back on you. Wear something body hugging such as one of the dresses that are made with Bodycon material. Bodycon dresses cling in all the right places. If that option doesn’t sound like one you’d be comfortable with then there’s always the old standby; a snug fitting pair of jeans.

5 Let Him Watch You Walk

Most women have a beautiful feminine walk that can draw male attention. This is your natural walk when you’re relaxed and unhurried. Wearing heels can actually exaggerate your feminine walk a bit more. The trick is to make sure he’s watching. Give him a kiss and then slowly walk away, giving him a nice view of your exit.

6 Flirt

Of course you can get his attention by flirting. After you’re together a while, flirting is something that can start slipping away. You’ve grown comfortable with each other and in your relationship. And while those are good things, you don’t want to lose the flirt. You should always keep flirting a part of your relationship, even after you’ve been married for years.

7 Be the Chase, Not the Chaser

Lastly, know where to draw the line. You want to be the chase, not the chaser. It’s okay to do a few things to get his attention but make sure you’re only drawing him in. Leave a space for him to chase you. You aren’t a desperate woman. Show him what he has but leave it up to him to come and get it.

These are 7 things you can do to get your boyfriend’s attention. Which ones do you plan to try? I’d love to hear your thoughts on this subject.

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