Pillow talk is something that’s very intimate and can only be shared by lovers. It can make your romantic bond even closer that it already was. But have you ever wondered what you should talk about during that special time? These are some subjects that make great pillow talk.
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1. Your Love Story
There’s no better subject than the subject of you two! Pillow talk is a good time to talk about how you met, your first feelings toward one another, your first impressions of the other and what you were each thinking during that time. Memory lane is always fun to visit. You may find that talking about your love story makes you feel more romantic toward one another. That can only lead to more pillow talk!
2. Dreams You Have for Your Life
Everyone has dreams for their life. They could be really simplistic or complex 10-year plans. There’s no right or wrong when it comes to the dreams you have for your life. Sharing your dreams with one another is like giving the one you love the most a secret look into your heart. And who better to encourage you to keep reaching for your dreams than your partner?
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3. Causes You’re Passionate about
Is there a cause close to your heart? Maybe you can’t stand the thought of animals being mistreated or you’re passionate about helping sick children. Those are things that are very precious to you. They’re good things to share during times of pillow talk. Letting your partner know the things that mean the most to you will make them love you even more.
4. Your Bucket List
Do you have a mental list of things you want to do in your lifetime? If so, you’ve got a bucket list. This makes a good topic of conversation for pillow talk. You can share about yourself and find out new information about your partner. Who knows? There may be things on your bucket lists that are identical.
5. Fun Things You’d like to Share
It’s fun to talk about things you’d like to do together during times of pillow talk. You can make plans and think of activities for future dates. It’s a good time to find out what interests you have in common. Even if you’ve been together for years, you can always learn something new about each other. We’re always changing as individuals so it makes sense that we should always be open about talking about our interests to our partner.
6. Your Feelings for One Another
Is there a sweeter topic for pillow talk? I don’t know of one! It’s the perfect time to talk about your feelings for one another. You’re locked away from the world and in your own special little bubble. It’s the ideal time to share how much he makes your heart melt!
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Pillow talk is not just a romantic cliché, it can actually be a powerful tool for building intimacy and understanding in a relationship. According to relationship experts, discussing your feelings for each other during this intimate time can strengthen the emotional connection between partners. It allows for open and honest communication, leading to a deeper understanding of each other's needs and desires. Additionally, expressing your love and admiration for your partner can boost their self-esteem and create a positive atmosphere in the relationship. So next time you're cuddled up in bed, take advantage of this perfect opportunity to share your feelings and strengthen your bond.
7. Your Future Together
Are you curious what your partner thinks about when he thinks of your future? Ask him and find out! This is a really good time for questions like that. You’re both feeling more open and loving. You can share what sort of future you’d love to have with him, too.
These are 7 subjects that are great choices for times of pillow talk. What do you and your sweetie usually talk about during these times? Your comments are always welcome!
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Keyanna: This is so cute
Lani: Trust me he will start " chasing " you again ...
Isabella: Why do we call it "pillow" talk? I'm curious! Also, how can you motivate your partner to express their feelings? I like doing that, but I would love his input sometimes too cause I feel like I give so much but always waiting for him to give back.. Hmm
Baylie: I'm with Isabella someone please share how you get your bf to open up. After two years together he doesn't take anything serious anymore. He just lives with the mindset that we've been together for long enough that there is nothing to worry about or nothing serious that needs discussing. But after a rocky two years I need reassurance, I want to know his true feelings. How can I get him to willingly open up again
Lani: You can't , he has to willingly.... Switch things up, surprise him with a costume .. Remember MEN are VISUAL.... Then say nothing , go along , smile ... Don't text or call the next day ....
Anna: Hey about your bf, don't overthink too much :) it will make you feel worse trust me
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