Unfortunately, most of your relationships will fail. Only one will last forever, and that's if you're lucky. To make sure you marry the right person, here are a few questions that'll tell you whether or not you're dating the person meant for you:
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1. Are You Comfortable around Him?
When you're around your boyfriend, you should be at ease. He shouldn't make you feel uncomfortable in any way, shape, or form.
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Being with your partner should feel like a safe haven, where you can be yourself without fear of judgment or criticism. Whether you're lounging in your sweatpants or dressed up for a night out, comfort is key. If he makes you nervous or anxious, it might be time to reflect on why. Genuine compatibility means relaxation and peace when you're together, fostering an environment where you both can thrive individually and as a couple.
2. Do You Both Want Children?
If you disagree on whether or not you should have children, then you probably shouldn't be together. One of you will end up getting your way, and the other will end up resentful.
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3. Do You Want to Live in the Same Place?
If he wants to live in Europe, and you insist on staying in America, you have a problem. If you don't have the same vision of the future, things probably won't work out.
4. Do You Trust Him?
If you're worried that he might cheat on you, you shouldn't be dating him. You need to find someone you can trust 100%.
5. Is He There Whenever You Need Him?
The right man for you won't leave you out to dry. He'll be by your side, no matter when or where you need him.
6. Will He do His Fair Share of Work?
You should be with a man who treats you like an equal. If he expects you to do everything around the house while he sits on the couch, he has another thing coming.
7. Does He Treat You with Respect?
If he talks down to you or makes you feel stupid, dump him. The right man for you will make you feel more special than you ever have before.
8. Do You Agree on How to Raise a Child?
Even if you both want to have children, there's more you need to agree on. If you want to raise the child a certain way and he wants to raise it in a completely different way, you'll butt heads too often to stay together.
9. Can You Stand His Friends and Family?
You don't have to love his friends and family. However, you're going to need to deal with them. If you can't stand them, then you shouldn't be together.
10. Are You Getting Bored of Him?
Relationships aren't always going to be exciting. However, if you're so bored of him that you're thinking about leaving him already, imagine how much worse you'll feel in the future.
11. Do You Agree on How to Handle Finances?
If you want to save up all of your money for a house, but he blows his paychecks as soon as he gets them, you won't be happy. Financial disputes are the biggest cause of divorce, you know.
12. Do You Resolve All of Your Fights?
It's normal for couples to fight. However, if you don't resolve the fights you have, there's going to be an even bigger problem down the road. You should only be with him if you're able to compromise.
13. Do You Have a Healthy Sex Life?
Sex isn't the most important thing in the world, but it definitely matters. If you don't have a healthy sex life, you can't have a healthy relationship.
14. Is He an Alcoholic?
If he's an alcoholic or a drug user, you should think before you marry him. You don't want his dangerous habits to rub off on you.
15. Are You Both Ready for Marriage?
If you're not ready to take such a big step, you should wait. You don't want to rush into things.
16. Are You Madly in Love with Him?
Don't marry for money or because your parents want you to get hitched. You should only marry him if you're crazy about him.
17. Can You Imagine Spending Forever Together?
If you can't, then why would you want to marry him? It's supposed to be a lifelong commitment.
Make sure you ask yourself these questions before you say yes to his proposal. Do you think you've found the man that you're going to marry?
Comments
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Zoe: What's the cartoon for the sixth?
Sunshine: Thank you!! I think those are all incredibly important questions to ask if someone wants to get married... I needed that. :)
Morgan: I can honestly answer yes to every one of those questions. 😍 Those are all very important if your thinking about marriage.
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